Originally Posted by
bbongobboy
Hello Chaps,
Now I find this thread rather sad. We've all been struck by an infatuation for a particular girl at one time or other. We're only human, right?
Real men see it for what it is and don't go lusting after the one particular girl. Call it maturity if you will, but don't drag the shop out with you when you leave. The girls are doing a job, the shop experience is fantasy, and unless you have been lucky enough to meet your soul mate in your latest speed dating punt, you're just another lonely, horny male full of testosterone.
It takes two people to fall in love but it only takes one to turn an otherwise intimate cash transaction into something the girl, or guy, would gladly refund double for in order to avoid the other. Uncommon, but it happens. Every shop and every girl has stories of THAT creepy guy who wouldn't stop chasing a girl everyone else thinks is average but he thinks is THE ONE.
Punters can change girls, change days or change shops. Girls are trapped in their shop until they find a better shop and change their name or go do outcall in Brisbane or Melbourne for a few weeks until it all blows over.
Don't chase the girls. Tell her you're into her, if you want it to be more. if she's into you she will say the same. Or make it clear that it ain't going to happen. If she decides not to fuck you on a private paid date or worse, tries to make it clear that she thinks you're going to be trouble best avoided, then leave her alone.
It doesn't take much to be found legally stalking another person... checking all her reviews at all the shops in which she has worked? ...got shop photos of her on your phone?... she refuses to say hello or take your money? Leave her alone.
Go to a new shop, block her WeChat, delete her contact details, etc. Break the cycle before it becomes a problem that you can't deal with.
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