There still might be a chance, I know one who is married, happily married I'm not so sure since the money is not the same. But she and husband have a restaurant in Newcastle.

Can you provide the same lifestyle she leads now if she stops working? Even if she stops working in shops, she could have a long list of privates, you'll just never know.

So if she's willing to stop, there's a chance for a long term relationship but you'll be forever paranoid of people recognising her and your family finding out.