Quote Originally Posted by RoyalFlush View Post
Goldfish, how did your family find out? I'm in a very similar situation but my wife is not aware yet. did you ever regret your decision to be freed from marriage? Further, I'm still picking up girls on the side with decent success when wife is overseas. I'm definately not getting married for a while if I do get divorced, marriage is too fucking boring to me.
She didn't find out. I came clean and told her everything, including all my punting, then I said I wanted a divorce because I wanted to stop pretending to be a devoted husband.
I have no regrets I did it. Of course it cost me financially, but money is just money, I can always make more. My way of life changed to what I imagined it would be, that's priceless.
If you really want to go through with it, make sure you understand all your legal rights. Things are very different here in Oz. Example, there's no such thing as alimony, but child support is important if you have kids, etc.