Sorry to hear that mate but from what it sounds like on your original post, it seems that you're missing love and the emotional intimacy - the sexually frustrated side of it is just a byproduct of that.Originally Posted by Jsmith8888
Without being a marriage counselor (is that something you've looked into?) I think what you need to do is think about what initially ignited the spark with the other half and try to rekindle that to get it burning again instead of looking for replacement love in the wrong places.
Women are complicated beasts and often you'll find that it only takes a small gesture to reignite the desire, something as simple as serving her breakfast in bed or getting her a small gift even though it's not a special occasion.
All the best with it mate and hopefully it works out for you.
The thais tend to be very good with faces, and if you've been intimate with them they'll remember you forever.
But they are also very secretive about their job, and terrified of seeing customers out on the street, even more so if the customer is with his partner.
I used to go to alot of korean & thai nightclubs and saw a few WLs I recognised - they would run away lol.
Wearing a balaclava is what someone would do if they wanted to cover their face or identity from the person.
yeah, my inlaw was waiting outside when I came out, they saw my car parked out the front. Took photos and left.
I tried to make up excuses in my head of what I was doing walking out of that joint and my wife just came home and left. Fuckin Brutal. I thought I was being discreet... Well, at least I can punt without any guilt now.
Gotta be Surry Hills, every corner has a flashing open sign at night.
If you get into the habit of putting on perfume on yourself, you don't have to worry about WL/ML perfume lingering on you. I used to also keep a spare bottle in the car/work-bag and sprayed some on a few minutes before getting home.
Wait, so you wear ladies perfume?
Why not I always have and still do.
Kenzo Flower, Le Eu De Issey, Bulgari Blue, Marc Jacobs Lola and Daisy, JPG Femme are some of my favorites. Perfumes last longer on the body than colognes and the girls love the smell, I've had numerous compliments from ladies from all walks of life on how good I smell.
Unfortunately the one which got the most comments isn't made anymore Boucheron Jaipur, a specialty fragrance shop used to bring it in from France for me.
My level of sarcasm depends on your level of stupidity.
I think he meant using men cologne to drown out the smell of the ladies perfume.
TBH i've never really had that problem. Majority of the girls i've seen have very faint perfume. At times the massage oil can be quite strong smelling
First bit of good advice on this whole thread.......................
Bro, reading your original post before the punt and this one after the punt, I think you are not in the right mind space for punting.
It's clear you have some fear and guilt associated with punting, and if you go into a punt feeling like that then you are not gonna be relaxed and ready to enjoy a good time.
No matter what happens between your legs, if you are not in the right mood between your ears it's not gonna feel good.
So take a break and think about if you can go to a punt fear and guilt free. If you can then great, go and have a good time! If not then forget about punting, there are lots of other things in life, and many of them better and more rewarding and meaningful than punting.
Paying for sex is just paying for sex. It's not gonna win you a Nobel Prize. It's nothing to be proud of and it's nothing to be ashamed of. It is what it is.
Good luck bro and all the best.
All you people worried about the lingering perfumes might like to consider that much of what you are smelling is residual vapor/droplets in your nostrils, not external.
I noticed a few years ago that other people weren't aware of what was "bothering" me. I had a g/f whose sense of smell was so strong she could have gotten a job as a drug detector. I'd get shit scared she would notice, but she never once detected anything on me after a session. A quick rinse of water up my nose got rid of the after-smell almost instantly.
Great words of advice Brother
1 year no sex, seriously?
What's the wife for?
Father I can understand, but father in law, how did the conversation began?serviously.
It’s never too late, time to reassess?
To have kids with but where the wife can't do her job properly in keeping the man home and keeping him satisfied then the WLs can step in to fix the problem.
I have met a ML in a shop who knows my wife
Suffice to say she was much more desperate to keep a secret than me
Saw some reports said, in some east-Asian countries like China, Japan, over 30% of married couples live sexless. Not sure how true is it. But it tells the problem to certain extent.
While the social moral condamns betrayal many choose to divorce or not get married at all.
A lot of those are because of cramped living quarters. If the couple has other family members living with them (kids, parents), there's literally no way to get any jiggy jiggy without waking up the whole house.
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