Biggest thing that turns me off is "fuck me (my name)" & "your cock so big baby". I can't stand this rubbish talk as I know how big my cock is. Not self conscious at all but its just a massive turn off it nearly makes me sick. I'm Asian myself and have the same cock size as majority of male pornstars in Japan. Never been a problem for me as its how you use it.

Also the other thing that I find a big turn off is during CIM. Sometimes the WL will hold the base of your cock so that you don't fully ejaculate. It hurts like hell and makes the experience shit. Other WL's will continue sucking well after you have cummed and don't care how much cum you blow in their mouths. Not sure if you guys have had the same experience but it has happened to me well over 5 times.