Falling in love with WLs

[Nelly69]

Relationships with a WL are almost always doomed, unless you are wealthy enough to take her away and start again it will not last. I am currently seeing a lady regularly at her home, until yesterday we were both being very cool about it.
I know she is fucking lots of men and she knows I am fucking other girls, she often invites one over on her days off for me if she is not up for it. I do have feelings for her but I've kept them in check and I was unsure how she felt about me as she has been very cool with everything. But something happened yesterday, she was at work at the shop and I was at her place with one of her friends, in the evening she called to tell me the shop was quiet and I should come over, I was too tired and was heading home.
She then started to question me about the other girl, this was only the second time I had seen her friend but she was clearly unhappy and admitted to being jealous, she was really struggling with it because she hadn't realized that she had developed an attachment to me. I had to reassure her that I had no feelings for the other girl but admitted to her that I do have for her. I am not sure where it goes from here, we both have complicated lives and combining them can only make matters worse. I have no intention of trying to be a "white knight" or some such, today we will catch up and clear the air.

Yeah, I trust is the biggest thing being in a relationship with a WL, but you are brave spending time at her place with her friend. Thats kinda odd if you ask me...

[azza1234]

Damn dude..... I had my regular ML ask me if I see other girls as well, for some reason I just kept saying no

[Raybo]

I pretty much love them all. Say the same thing every time this thread comes up. Is it get married, have children, raise family type love? Nah......it's different.

The love is the time you spend together, occasionally having a chat in between those times. The laughs, the tears and the exploration of each other's body that determines the 'love' you have.

[wilisno]

I pretty much love them all. Say the same thing every time this thread comes up. Is it get married, have children, raise family type love? Nah......it's different.

The love is the time you spend together, occasionally having a chat in between those times. The laughs, the tears and the exploration of each other's body that determines the 'love' you have.

My kind of attitude in punting, haha !

[Niceguy11]

I'm not falling in love with my regular, but do care for her the same way I do with my friends. She made it clear she will never get into a relationship with a punter that she has met in a shop and would prefer to meet someone outside of the shop. We do hang out outside of the shop like take her dog for a walk, get dinner or just hangout playing games, just like a normal friendship relationship. Outside the shop, we are just normal people living normal lives and never had sex. I mean it's on the cards and we can, but I just appreciate the normality of being friends if that makes sense. Just to make it clear, I don't have feelings for her, but do care about her the same way as I do with my good friends.

I talk about my problems with my work and she tells me her problems with her work/job. I don't know if other punters have a regular who is brutally honest with the way the sex industry is, but god damn, its a eye opener. The saddest thing she told me is that she hates fucking random guys and wants to build a better life for herself which is totally understandable. I know its her choice but she is determined to get out of the industry sooner rather than later.

Look, I can understand the O.P about falling in love with a WL, its a real thing and can happen to all of us. It's very hard to not get attached and if you develop feelings of love, I can certainly understand that.

[Jumper]

I'm not falling in love with my regular, but do care for her the same way I do with my friends. She made it clear she will never get into a relationship with a punter that she has met in a shop and would prefer to meet someone outside of the shop. We do hang out outside of the shop like take her dog for a walk, get dinner or just hangout playing games, just like a normal friendship relationship. Outside the shop, we are just normal people living normal lives and never had sex. I mean it's on the cards and we can, but I just appreciate the normality of being friends if that makes sense. Just to make it clear, I don't have feelings for her, but do care about her the same way as I do with my good friends.

I talk about my problems with my work and she tells me her problems with her work/job. I don't know if other punters have a regular who is brutally honest with the way the sex industry is, but god damn, its a eye opener. The saddest thing she told me is that she hates fucking random guys and wants to build a better life for herself which is totally understandable. I know its her choice but she is determined to get out of the industry sooner rather than later.

Look, I can understand the O.P about falling in love with a WL, its a real thing and can happen to all of us. It's very hard to not get attached and if you develop feelings of love, I can certainly understand that.

Thanks for bringing this up.
I had few times having meals, shopping or settle some problems together with regular ML, I liked this even no sex just kinda of friendship.
Few days ago, as normal dates for breakfast, one of them invited me to her apartment, told me to shower then have sex.
Please don’t ask me who and where.
I felt a bit awkward so pay her $200. What do you think?

[B J Hunter]

Thanks for bringing this up.
I had few times having meals, shopping or settle some problems together with regular ML, I liked this even no sex just kinda of friendship.
Few days ago, as normal dates for breakfast, one of them invited me to her apartment, told me to shower then have sex.
Please don’t ask me who and where.
I felt a bit awkward so pay her $200. What do you think?

Don’t pay any money next time and see if you get another invite! Then you’ll know, Is it love or the love of money?

[DireStraits]

Thanks for bringing this up.
I had few times having meals, shopping or settle some problems together with regular ML, I liked this even no sex just kinda of friendship.
Few days ago, as normal dates for breakfast, one of them invited me to her apartment, told me to shower then have sex.
Please don’t ask me who and where.
I felt a bit awkward so pay her $200. What do you think?

I think... giving her *any* amount of cash when she invited you over because she wanted to be with you was highly insulting.
But never mind what I think - how did she react to it? Did she refuse? Look disappointed? That's how you'll know whether there was an expectation of payment...

[Nelly69]

Thanks for bringing this up.
I had few times having meals, shopping or settle some problems together with regular ML, I liked this even no sex just kinda of friendship.
Few days ago, as normal dates for breakfast, one of them invited me to her apartment, told me to shower then have sex.
Please don’t ask me who and where.
I felt a bit awkward so pay her $200. What do you think?

I too would be interested on her reaction on giving her money, I am kinda seeing a ML and we go out for dinner often and I do have feelings for her but if I was ever to go back to her place and have sex, I would consider that emotional vs transactional. My ML have never asked me for money and I still see and pay her at the shop but I would never transact that outside of a RNT place. Don't treat transaction as love man!

[Jumper]

Don’t pay any money next time and see if you get another invite! Then you’ll know, Is it love or the love of money?

I don’t like free lunch. Few hours together playtime, teatime and fuck time. I have to compensate her something as she serve $400/an hour. I will not contact her again unless she contact me.

I think... giving her *any* amount of cash when she invited you over because she wanted to be with you was highly insulting.
But never mind what I think - how did she react to it? Did she refuse? Look disappointed? That's how you'll know whether there was an expectation of payment...

We didn’t discuss about money before sex but she did mentioned just tips will do???
She didn’t feel disappointment just received. She messaged me after I left saying thanks.

I too would be interested on her reaction on giving her money, I am kinda seeing a ML and we go out for dinner often and I do have feelings for her but if I was ever to go back to her place and have sex, I would consider that emotional vs transactional. My ML have never asked me for money and I still see and pay her at the shop but I would never transact that outside of a RNT place. Don't treat transaction as love man!

No love, she knows I have family but ask me to be her boyfriend. She just need companion ask me to stay overnight during Xmas break. As she knows I will be off til new year.

I haven’t contacted her since, but even she contact me.
Hi bro, just need opinions doesn’t mean to show off as doesn’t want to break this relationship as I feel enjoying having time with her.

[Niceguy11]

Thanks for bringing this up.
I had few times having meals, shopping or settle some problems together with regular ML, I liked this even no sex just kinda of friendship.
Few days ago, as normal dates for breakfast, one of them invited me to her apartment, told me to shower then have sex.
Please don’t ask me who and where.
I felt a bit awkward so pay her $200. What do you think?

It's great you gave her the cash man, but I reckon next time just hold off and see what happens. From my experience, she has never asked for cash outside the shop.

[tarl1975]

I have learned my lessons having relationships with WLs - just love them during those sessions as if you have entered another realm. I have also met WLs who fell in love with the punters - they have also learnt their lessons.

[DireStraits]

I have to compensate her something as she serve $400/an hour.

I'm sorry - would you mind please clarifying... $400/an hour? Is that her normal rate as a ML?? I've never seen a ML charge anything like that! WLs yes, but not MLs...

[warwick1]

Thanks for bringing this up.
I had few times having meals, shopping or settle some problems together with regular ML, I liked this even no sex just kinda of friendship.
Few days ago, as normal dates for breakfast, one of them invited me to her apartment, told me to shower then have sex.
Please don’t ask me who and where.
I felt a bit awkward so pay her $200. What do you think?

Sounds familiar, you help them out with their own interests outside and I do it because I have the time and there is no other motive, I am past all that and then the money thing turns up, disappointing but no big deal...merry xmas to all...............

[Jumper]

I'm sorry - would you mind please clarifying... $400/an hour? Is that her normal rate as a ML?? I've never seen a ML charge anything like that! WLs yes, but not MLs...

She is a ML in the shop but occasionally escort hourly $400. This is standard for escorts girls for FS.

Thanks everybody. I will come back if she contact me to her apartment again.

[cuteguy]

I have learned my lessons having relationships with WLs - just love them during those sessions as if you have entered another realm. I have also met WLs who fell in love with the punters - they have also learnt their lessons.

In most cases, it's the customer who gets his heart broken if he falls for a WL. Most WLs know that if they want to work as WLs then they can't have relationships with customers. They have to keep their work separate from their private lives.

[Raybo]

if you actually fall in love with a girl and she seems to feel the same way, why would you share it here?

[Dettol]

Same old thread that always end up with some lames just try to outfantasy one another LOL !

[niva321]

Oh hey it's Dettol, the saltiest shrimp dick on this forum

[Jamez11]

See's the title, probably reads every single post then complains about it... yep salty shrimp dick move