Thanks for sharing and taking the time. It's a good read.
Kind of demonstrates how fickle and obsessed we men can be. Myself included. We might not even realise it. And it can take decades to progress or finally finish. Women in the other hand can be the ones to make hard decisions. Cut off completely. All women I think, although I've had more experiences with Japanese women in thjs regard.

Glad you made a decision to move on. Took a decade, but you did. I should too!!

Thanks for sharing.