Quote Originally Posted by paulgallen View Post
With the Sugar Babel arrangement. I imagine the first meeting would be a dinner or drinks, do you need to pay for their time on this?

And if you want to take it further, do you then go have sex straight away if keen? Of sex is already pre arranged??
Paul it really depends on a few things. Age is one factor. For example, one Sugar Daddy I know is 72 and he is fucking girls in their mid twenties. His strategy is to take them out for dinner and to give them a small gift or an envelope for their time. He is competing with younger guys for the same girls, so he needs a point of difference and it has been successful for him.

I personally will not ever pay for someone’s time to enjoy a meal or a cup of coffee with me. My time is also valuable and I’ve chosen them over all of the other girls I could have picked on the Sugarbabe site.

There are as many approaches to the pre meet as there are women on SA. It depends very much on how you set it up in the offline conversation. I look for the types that I can take my time with - I don’t want to rush to sex because I’m not looking for one offs or fast fuck and run meets. Others may and that is their preference.

I never proceed to a sex meet without meeting someone in public first. I prefer wine or a cocktail over coffee, for example, purely because I find they create different sensory response in both men and women.

Think about what works for you in terms of the persona you portray on the site and remain consistent with that.