Quote Originally Posted by Sam678 View Post
@BennyB - thanks for starting this thread. It has been quite interesting one to offer a completely different perspective to me. I ain't a frequent punter but still like the idea of non clock and flexible arrangements. Haven't got the chance to read the complete thread yet but have decided to give it a try and hopefully work out from there. My only question is do you guys who have an account on SB forums need to put up pictures because it's the only part I am not comfortable with to begin with. Sorry If It's too naive one but have never read much into this domain ever before.
Hi Sam

Thanks for your note and question. This is the part that worries a lot of guys and it makes sense. It all comes down to your personal circumstances.

If I was single, it would be normal to put facial pics up on any dating site - SA would not be any different. If married, or partnered, I would be more circumspect.

You also have the choice between private and public photos. I use a blurred photo for my public photo and full face ones in my private photos.

The other alternative is to share private photos offsite. Most normal girls who also want to protect their privacy will understand this.

There is a whole chapter on photos and building your profile in that Sugar dating book I recommended.