Quote Originally Posted by Aloscha View Post
Second time I ever punted in my youth, I had the same sore throatt experience. I admit to freaking out (the naiveity of youth) and partially offended the WL by asking if she had been tested recently but was diplomatic enough not to get a backlash from her. Turned out to be a common cold, probs after being naked in cold aircon in the hotel room all night with the WL lol.

Goes to show, the psychological effects, even without BBFS. I cant lie that I haven't had BBFS (total three times) with my first ever WL (who became my reg over a period of 10 years but didn't BBFS until the last three years), a young inexperienced WL who got caught up in the moment and a Japanese WL where little bro accidentally slipped in during pussy slide after she got super wet.

Aside from my reg, I stopped the BBFS after a couple of minutes as the big head heeded caution over little head. Though all three girls admitted to BBFS feeling better for them (apparently it feels less 'artificial' and they are less likely to dry out from longer sex), I always told them they shouldn't be risking it, not with me and not with anyone else. Only my reg insisted that we do BBFS in the latter years and we always tested regularly and she was on the pill.

I definitely wouldn't recommend asking for BBFS, there's no point to given sex doesn't feel THAT much better. I'd rather develope a great connection with a wl and be safe.

I'm also cycling through protected and BBFS with my current partner so definitely sex with condom only if I'm punting. If we care about our significant others, then we shouldn't risk them just because we want a few moments of pleasure.
Spot on. Only CBJ and no kissing for me these days - especially if you have a partner. Learnt my lesson younger days (always been careful for yes now). 2 times chlamydia - first time I swore to doc never again. Second time I kid you not I said to put a dom on and she did for first session but at the end she sucked me off (she was so good at the end and prob was trying to show me what I was missing - but fmd it was my luck after not doing it so long that I got it fucken again). Also freaked the sht out of me one time and I got really sick and tired and looked up stuff like you - I was really tired and exhausted and sleeping all the time and then had to travel which was a disaster. It ended up being mono / glandular fever which had symptoms like HIV which scared the absolute sht out of me. Apparently got from kissing so none of that for me anymore.