Just saw this thread and only read the ops first post.

But i had the same issue with my first time.
A friend ive been flirting with offered to take my virginity at my mid to o late 20s.

Had a half chub the whole time.
And never even came close to finishing.
Which i could attribute to two main things.
The girl was a little more on the plus size than what i prefer.
And i accidentally came in the shower, the day before the deed.
Happened when i was first trying out wearing a condom. Was just too tight, haha.


My solution?
Tried going to rnts and brothels.
Tried each of them once.
Both times, i never had a raging boner for more than 8 seconds.
Which made it a bit hard for fs.

Those two times, the girls were both very amazing, my type.
I came, even just a few seconds after the very lovely wl hopped on me in cg.
However, the mls cbj was not really doing it for me, so i had to imagine a few stuff, which helped me finish.
Both times only came once and couldnt get hard again.
Which imo, cumming too quick and not being able to get hard again for the 1 hr session, which was less than 15 mins of play.

Wanting to get more experience and try more girls, i decided that i want to get more out of the session than my first ml and wl sessions.

Ended up getting kamagara jel, even before getting prescription viagra.
And ive never looked back since.

Ensures that i dont have to worry about keeping my erection up.
And it is even harder than when i tried really hard to keep an erection without the medicine.

I usually am okay finishing once during an hour session.
But ive been able to finish 3 times in an hour.
Once per hour, for 3 consecutive hours.


Not worrying about the erection helped me in being able to concentrate on what turns me on and what turns the lady on as well.

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