Quote Originally Posted by alc View Post
Taking a punt (hah) at the OPs issue...

I think the issue you're having is you haven't figured out what you're looking for from a sexual experience. The thing about going to WL and ML is that you're effectively going there to get a service. When they get a customer who doesn't try to run the session or doesn't provide feedback and build chemistry, they fall back to their routine and you end up receiving sex, rather than having sex.

Without first figuring out what you want, you're probably not going to be in a position to run the session in a way that works for you. In being on the receiving end of someone's routine, you're probably not going to get something that matches what you had in mind.

Maybe if you detail the girl that you picture in your mind and some sort of experience you're looking for, we can help figure out a lady who would be patient and amenable to working out your preferred experience. I get this may be a little too intimate to share here but I reckon it could work.
Yeah I don't think you're wrong. I don't really know what I want so I'm mostly just going along with it and seeing how I feel. I've detailed what I was looking for going in and what I've tried in my previous punts report posts so far and other brothers have responded and given their advice which has lead to where we are now.