Quote Originally Posted by JohnJones View Post
BBFS in shops these days are almost nonexistent. Some WLs may be scared of STDs, the rest more likely scared of accidental creampies.

If you want BBFS it's better to seek out privates, though you're less likely to get young ones willing to do it. I've only known one private in her 30s willing to do BBFS, these days she's slightly out of shape and a little crazy.
One of the most humorous posts I have seen here so congrats on that.

What shops are you going to that do not offer BBFS?? or is it the way you ask?

I get the feeling we are back in the early 80's when everything was BBFS or BBBD (bare back back door) from my most recent punts.
Up until Christmas there were a dozen or so who had offered me BBFS and one BBBD in 2022 but this year I have had more offers than I can count including a couple of ML's as well. Not old dried up ones, 19 and 24 yr olds. In fact it is rare that I don't feel as though it is on the menu or offered.

Probably a money issue TBH. I honestly do not see the problem. If you enjoy it and are willing to take any risks onboard then by all means do what makes you happy.
I have declined every offer this year for the simple reason I have a regular partner who is the only one I do anything BB with. I would NEVER put her at risk.
Whilst our relationship is not monogamous and only casual she pays me the same respect and to date we are both STI free.