One woman on seeking dot com early last year seemed keen to meet after we agreed on 500 plus me arranging hotel room. However, I was busy with someone else and was buying time.

She messaged me and wanted to know if I wanted to see her on a specific week day morning. I said something like "leave it with me so I can find if I can get a hotel room"... she replied "You don't need to because I will be staying overnight in the city at a hotel and you can come and spend time with me in the morning before I check out."

When she said that, I thought to myself, "bugger, she is spending the night with another sugardaddy who paid for the hotel room, and she will wait in the morning till he's gone to work before she get another guy (liken me) to come in and earn another 500".... I know some of you reading this might say "but maybe she was clubbing the night before and staying with a girlfriend or alone at the hotel"... I didn't think so at the time because of the way she seemed wanting to fix a particular time for the morning... anyway.

As much as I know the whole scheme is based on non-exclusivity, it did still feel like exploitation (or good business) on her part so I declined the offer and never met her. Yet, when I go to RnT places, I have zero problems with knowing there was several guys ahead of me that day and more to follow me. Go figure!!!