Quote Originally Posted by OLD SNAKE View Post
i am very interested in finding out more about sugar babies, especially the cost efficacy compared to an escort or a regular girlfriend, and what is the arrangement for sex and dating eg dinner movies, and how many times a week can you meet up, and what will be the cost,
currently i have a GF, we go to dinner twice a week and it costs me around $300, i had to give up punting to divert funds to dating, but do have to pretend i am paying attention and be a bit of a simp to get some action
If you are not married and not living with a partner/GF, then you have a lot of freedom to pick girls on Tinder who will have sex with you for no payment. Just make sure you use a photo of yourself that is not in circulation and maybe not recent so any GF you date cannot track you down.

For many of us here, we have wives and partners, so we cannot go dating (lack of time and risk of being seen in public)... so we go for so-called sugarbabies. The only exception if you are not living with a woman is if you are an older gentleman and you want to bang much younger girls than you (say age gap 20 years) in which case the young ones on Tinder will not be interested so you have to use sugar ($$$) to get them.

On seeking dot com, some girls will write how they are not looking for PPM (payment per meeting) and want a regular allowance (you pay them a fixed monthly or weekly amount regardless of how often you meet). In reality this is bullshit as very few sugar arrangements are exclusive and very few men are wealthy and can afford to cover the girls rent and clothing and food, etc.
In any case, you always start by saying how initially it is better for both sides to have an amount paid each time you meet, till you are confident it will be a happy arrangement.

From the girls I met over the last 5 or 6 years, it is clear they know all the tricks of having multiple sugardaddies and expect to be met every 10 days or so (3 or 4 times a month) because they will want the 500 (current usual amount) as often as possible. I know some punters here are able to get girls to accept less, say 400. Keep in mind that hotel rooms are around $125 to $180 if you use the dayuse website to book rooms... so this is an added cost.

Some girls will try to extract more $$$.... I have had one crying on the phone because her VISA maxed out and she wanted some cash within a few hours to pay her monthly minimum fee. Another one sent me a website with a dress to see if I would buy it for her so she can "attend a friend's wedding next week"....

Another point, you must always be thinking "this is a financial arrangement, and nothing more" ... because I introduced a client (married man) to seeking dot com and he started meeting girls and got himself emotionally involved with one of them. Sad story and stupid thing to do.

As a closing comment, I can tell you that ML and WL at massage and brothel shops are always far superior to giving enjoyment and making sure you (customer) are getting value. They never play games like sugarbabes try to, and also sugarbabes on average are lousy in bed compared to the professionals, if you get my drift.

Give it a go.....