Quote Originally Posted by ditchtheboss View Post
In my experience and opinion the biggest downside of SBs is the hosting. I don’t host because I don’t want anyone going to my place uninvited, it happens. So having to book a room to see them to me is a downside. Over the past few months I have seen a few SBs and 2 of them hosted me. The others I had to find a place.

I don’t think the money is a downside and one doesn’t need deep pockets to have SBs. I don’t consider myself a real SD as I don’t do allowance I only do p p m. I also don’t take them shopping for expensive items. The only difference between my SBs and escorts or WLs is that I spend usually more than 3 hours with them, most of the time starting or finishing with a meal. Every time there is at least 2 rounds of sex. They give me a true girlfriend experience but we kiss good by and go our ways at the end of the day. Most of them message me almost everyday, just chatty chat but they are keeping me engaged as I know I am a source of income for them, it is nice though. I truly enjoy it. What I do with them is different than WLs or escorts although I could pay WLs to do what I do with SBs but it would end up much more expensive.

What I have with them is a girlfriend without the commitment.

I also don’t pay more than 600 p p m and there are plenty of girls who go for that and to me they are attractive and horny, they don’t use lube to fuck me like most WLs do, they get wet naturally abdicarem to truly enjoy the experience.

Some guys count every penny to be spent with SBs and conclude it is too expensive. It may be but I don’t look at it that way. If I have to get a room I make a whole experience for me out of that. Get a nice place in a location we can go places and have nice food. WRT food I don’t count it as an expense with SB. I can either go home and have an average dinner by myself or I can have a nice meal with a hottie on my arms. You know my choice.

Some may say that looking for a girl is a downside, you have chat, discuss price, etc… to me it is not a downside, it’s a hunt and I enjoy the hunt.

Just me and my experience
Thanks for sharing. I look forward to SB adventures exactly cuz of the points you and others have mentioned. It was quite some time ago I have decided I'm not the marrying type. I'm just not that kind of guy. Maybe in the future some lady will change me but I doubt it.


Anyway my ideal relationship would be somewhere between GF and WL. Without the attachment/commitment/family issues of GF but with more emotional, more intimacy, more natural vibe than a WL. Some would say FB but good looking FB are hard to find.

I've become more and more disappointed with WLs recently. Maybe its an age thing, I'm over 37 now., going to brothels dun do it for me anymore. Especially popular ones. I've stopped going to Ginza many years ago even before covid. Rude receptionist aside, more importantly the place had become like a factory line. The last few times I ws there I had mental blocks cuz I knew 15 mins ago another guy just had his dick in her warm place where mine is now. To be honest I was quite grossed out.

Recently I was enticed to going N5M ( haven't been there in ages) to see a wl due to many glowing reviews from here and other forum but I left disappointed again. Instant regret. It's the same story. Heard some said after recent police raid, the place might be quiet but it was actually busy. The girl was even super busy. I guess she became popular. Arrived 15 mins late due to previous session. She was friendly but the whole session was too perfunctory. Very sure it's cuz she was booked out so she going on like speedy Gonzales a hundred miles an hour lol. Racing through the usual stuff, small talk, lay out sheet, shower, bj, sex etc. Boom boom boom going through the necessary checkpoints. Even the way she fast talked a regular conversation topic it's like she is running late for a meeting lol.

Not to mention my major pet peeves, putting fark ton of lube that I could hardly feel anything down there, time watching, asking me time and again do I feel like cumming. I knew it was $300 down the drain again. I mean appreciate her effort but at the end it felt like to me she straddled the line between enthusiastic and simply pushy. Became less fake nice and more demanding when she rushed me to shower and get dressed.

I'm sorry if this felt like a rant on a bad punt or if I named shops but it's my genuine experience, not opportunity to diss shops. Moreover this is probably the final straw for me for shops and turn to SB scene. I still go to massage shops like CBD styles, private girls and escort agencies as most girls there do give me less brothel wl vibes. Not ashamed to admit I have spent a fortune on them this year but returns are diminishing. I hope the SB scene will better suited for me in long run. Cost wise it might be close or more expensive but if the experience is more naturally close to GF than escorts/private girls, it's worth my money. I will see.

As for accommodation I really don't mind putting SBs up on nice hotels and dinner initially. I already do that for some privates and escorts anyway. Although I do wonder if they expect pre arranged meetings to occur on certain frequency like every two weeks, every week, every few days or something. That might be an issue lol.