Quote Originally Posted by ditchtheboss View Post
After being an idiot in thi area a couple of times, what works for me is to have the right mindset of why I am seeing them. Folks call it a transaction. I have to go further than that.

My mindset going into the punt is not to have s girlfriend experience but I am going to have sex, hard dirty sex.

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I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic, always have been since I was a teen.... I'm probably in the wrong 'hobby'!