Reply With QuoteOriginally Posted by youngheart
Do you think a WL who is banging twenty plus guys a week year after year is going to get pregnant?
I think the girls new to the industry may, but the seasoned pros?
I thought some things were private? Obviously she didn’t think so. Perhaps it was a boast?
From a punter’s perspective it’ll be interesting to see if she ever marries and how long that lasts.
Do you think a WL who is banging twenty plus guys a week year after year is going to get pregnant?
I think the girls new to the industry may, but the seasoned pros?
If it was my first punt and I was her first customer/guest/client and I was instantly in love and knew what I knew now - in a heartbeat - but reality doesn’t work that way.
Just dream - it is much cheaper.
Admittedly I have been badly smitten - ouch it fucking hurts.
I think it’s the chase that gets the guys returning. That is what guys do… chase pussy.
The WL’s give just enough non commital illusion to keep you coming back. Yet not enough to make them actually yours.
Guys get smitten and want to go further. Hence they become regulars. Hoping for more.
Sometimes I think “getting” the WL committed to a punter would invariably lead to loss of sexual appetite for the punter.
Thus a stale relationship and the end of it. Which from a business perspective is not what the WL wants.
Are WL’s really the players here?
I think so.
Based on experience this is true.
The list on contacts is their key to regular support.
While waiting heard by ML give over her phone number to a random.
You would love my text exchanges with this ML - they are extensive - intense -,detailed - currently after several months - in silence - it’s a story.
Just before my session started an ML volunteered she had a guy who said he was in love with her and consequently had promised certain help but reneged on this promise on/off - she was frustrated.
Later on another occasion same ML looked at me and said about this particular punter “not in love with me, in love with my pussy” I responded “were all in love with your pussy” and there you have it - the punters “mess of life”.
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A lot of posts on this forum say punters promise the world to a WL but never deliver. Are there any stories of punters delivering?
Here’s a question.
Why wouldn’t a WL want to be in a relationship with a punter? From their side, what stops them?
Nice question.
Divorce rates (rates vary according to length of marriage)
1st marriage - 50% (40%)
2nd marriage - 65%
Mixed marriages - 40%
Divorce rate with an ML - odds don’t look good.
Note - most of the MLs are Asian so communication is a problem - and even then with a translator you’re back to the “basics” due to the cultural gaps and nuances of the Aussie culture.
Note any ethic group gravitates to the their own ethnic group. Current MLs have extensive ML networks that they remain attached to. How does the song go “always something there to remind me”.
How do you accommodate the past sexual history - HJ, BJ, FS - so for each year of service - 2000/1500/500 - your guess as good as mine!!
An ML is probably supporting an extended family and may want to import family etc
Complexities of life are tenuous at best in a perfect relationship and I guess many here would attest to that - otherwise they would not be here punting and posting in these forums.
And I guess there are those that just survive in a marriage.
Would you play poker with all the cards open on the table?
Nice reflection - especially if the cards are all Jokers
I thought we all held our cards close?
Regarding divorce rates. I’ve noticed it is intergenerational. For example if the grandparents get divorced then their children tend to have divorces and their grandchildren also. I’ve even seen people get married and predicted a future divorce and I’ve seen it come to fruition. The last time was because the husband openly played around. Loose lips sink ships and he went down like the titanic.
Ethnicity is also another disrupter. That needs no extrapolation.
We all have a past sexual history. Maybe not on as big a scale as some WL’s but it’s still there.
As regards supporting an extended family. That comes with the territory and compassion for other people goes a long way. Like I’ve said in another post. My mate paid for a village bridge to be constructed in Burma. It was no skin off his nose either.
There are those that only just survive in anything they do, not just marriage.
Exactly. There's no point in playing the game if all everyone's cards are known. It becomes a game of pure luck.
It's the same thing with dating a WL. The moment you met her in that setting, all notion of a normal relationship would've gone out the window. You both know each other's secrets and perhaps more importantly, you each know that the other party has that knowledge. Game over before you even started.
That’s just it. It’s basically smoke and mirrors on both sides till one gets serious. Usually the punter. Does any punter ever reveal the truth?
Maybe it should be show me a card and I’ll show you one of mine. I don’t see anyone laying out a full hand on either side. Why would they? It’s too risky for any number of reasons.
I never thought about it that way, very well said
She also knows how to rock my socks off and that’s why I go back!!
That’s a sex secret and probably if you have a parter one that you might not share with?
But what about the punters real life, the life outside the massage shop or brothel?
What about those secrets?
I am single, but I still like to keep it to myself. Play time and personal life must be kept well apart from each other. That’s a no brainer
Do you boast about it to your mates?
It depends on how fucked up you are. One of my mates is a punter and I tell him everything I do, but he has a limit on what he tells me cos he’s into some fucked up shit that he won’t share. The furthest he told me is that he’s got a mental problem and must play out his fantasies. He can’t do it here in Oz so he travels every few months to Thailand and Vietnam and does it there.
A surgeon I was talking to this week brought up mental health. It was a discussion about life in general. She told me a lot of people have issues.
I thought life’s good, why bring up the topic?
Obviously things around her are not so good.
You never know what the person next to you is going through. Another guy I crossed paths with for a while this year was an “A grade asshole”. Not to me but just to business in general. I kept thinking what’s his problem. It got to the stage where I thought to stay away from him.
Anyhow next interaction he tells me he has ADHD and is now on medication and he’s a completely different person. So nice now.
In the past mental health issues were not discussed.
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