Reply With QuoteMaybe it's in our DNA to continue to hunt and dominate. So once we conquer we continue to find fresh new meat.
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As the title suggests, would you?
Or put the effort in with your GF or wifey and get free sex?
I'm curious to know if I'm just messed up. Still punting knowing my partner then was a hottie already. I mean the guys were always checking her out everywhere we went.
Maybe it's in our DNA to continue to hunt and dominate. So once we conquer we continue to find fresh new meat.
I can imagine many men are married to very attractive women who lose their sex drive, or the two just tire of each other
I was trying to accept my less attractive ex-wife back when we were married and she let herself loose on the excess eating.Originally Posted by Kiki kong
If I were to marry my crush who isn't just hot & sexy but also excellent in bed, I don't mind if she gets mad and doesn't let me sleep in the same bed for a few nights. I'd make up to her and hopefully the makeup sex becomes so passionate we'd have to buy a new bed the next day.
Your misses can be a 10/10, but if she has the personality of a cold fish, of course you are going to go somewhere else where you can get some warmth,
That’s why a lot of married punters seek out a good regular, who gives the full passionate GF experience and not the wife who has a headache routine
It would depend on the chemistry. Which has little to do with looks for me.
Looks aren’t everything, they’re important but the connection is everything. No connection and people will stray.
No, I'm not an idiot, if I have a hot wife at home who's very attractive at 9/10 I know I hit the jackpot, I'm not going to fork out extra money and pay for someone who's less attractive, at the risk of her finding out and losing everything. If I have a hot and attractive wife at home I wouldn't let her off the hook, instead I'll fuck her hard every night and make her cum...for free.
If you felt that you've lost the connection or whatever that's your issue to work out, if you feel that you can get better sex by fucking a stranger with a condom on then by all means go for it, everyone's wired differently. The "hunt and dominate" thing you talked about is the MAOA DNA, aka the warrior gene, there other DNA that's associated with cheating and finding new meat and that's a little different.
Now if my wife's not attractive....that would be a different story :P
There's lots of guys with trophies that just sit on a mantle piece gathering dust. I motivate myself by winning lots of trophies. Trophies can be held, admired, and looked at, and the effort and work it took to get that trophy is but a distant memory. Then you reach a point in life and you ask yourself, what now?
Connection and love is the trophy.
Connection and love.
Is something we all chase.
Mine is and yet, I do!
It happens.....
Yes my missus is hot Asian lady but you get a different experience punting or having another Asian regular girl like I do. Just need to be smart and never get caught with your pants down. Its just amazing to be able to still go with other Asian wls its a great experience and an addiction. Does not matter how hot your missus is your still going to do her a couple of times a week and go for the extra ladies what ever you can get. Just be sure your wife never knows anything is going on it just takes one slip up like lipstick on your cock on your part and your busted, down and out.
The only time I ever punt when I have a girlfriend is if she joins in. Or if we have decided to have an open relationship. If you’ve made a commitment to someone and your fucking around then it just shows what type of person you are.
For me my word actually means something and that is more important to me than a cheap thrill.
There's an old saying, "No matter how beautiful a girl is, somewhere there is a guy who is tired of putting up with her shit."
And that goes both ways.
To answer OP, looks aren't everything and she may be gorgeous but has zero sex drive, or the couple are just together in name only, the spark gone from the relationship, or like happens a lot (particularly with some Asian women I keep hearing) once the kid rearing days are done, sex is taken off thw table completely by the wife. I even had a Japanese friend who had a kind of unspoken agreement, he and the wife hadn't had sex for 10+ years, he didn't ask what she did with the money as long as bills were paid and house was in good order etc, and she didn't ask what he did with his spending money, which usually included trips to hostess bars and then on to Koganecho in Yokohama when that was a red light district.
Everyone's circumstances are different. But if I was with a 9/10 and we had a healthy sexual relationship then nope, I wouldn't be punting.
If for whatever reason the partner you are with ceases to have sex with you what then? Do you stay with them and go without?
When you say your word, do you mean marriage vows?
I don’t recall any de facto relationship I’ve been in where vows are stated. You just move in together. No one has ever said “agree to be loyal” in my relationships.
Perhaps if they requested it I would.
You have a discussion with them about it. If your relationship has moved to just being a friendship then just be honest about it and move on.
I mean just in general here. I try to live by “say what you mean and mean what you say”. I just don’t have time for bullshit
This is just sophistry at its best. If they don’t specifically request you not to fuck anything that moves you can?! Loyalty in a relationship is implied unless you very clearly agree otherwise.
If your partner ceases to have sex with you, maybe it's because of physical or mental health issues. Normal woman don't just simply lose their sex drive unless the male partner has lost interest in her and stopped sleeping with her for a very long time.
Women are normally shy so even if they see a hot male they're unlikely to be upfront and say she wants his dick, therefore it is unlikely for women to start the affair.
Most women want sex, but they have their own prerequisites. They want to see men persuade them hard enough. That's the connection women want to make sex worthwhile, hence the reason why most women would rather have one partner her whole life.
Remind me to never date you…
I think men by our very nature are wired to spread our seed far and wide...
I have never ever successfully stayed loyal to any relationship so I totally agree with you @Vincent888
So...yes, my ex was a hottie...and i still punt. The thrill of cheating also turns me on...
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Ok. But the Beatles sang "All you need is love". Maybe that song needs an upgrade
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