I always bring a new box plus mouthwash.Originally Posted by frisson
They add theirs too.
Consequently we go through twelve maybe more condoms during a group session? I don’t count but it’s a lot. We have to, as so many positions and so many partner swaps between positions.
Double lots of bed linen as it gets soaked, eight towels. It’s a production, but well run by the girls.
How can a girl choose the partner unless the guy is doing the chasing?
It’s extremely rare for a WL, ML or lady to make the first forward advance. The guy has to signal his intention and then it’s up to them to agree by reciprocating.
If she doesn’t agree then it’s going nowhere.
Which is what I’ve experienced recently.
A big zero.
A woman who has chosen her man will allow him to chase her.
Those she didn't choose or were too ugly for her will find ways to make him not come back.
Some women do reciprocate on a 1 to 1 basis, some will reciprocate little by little.
And some, when the man is about to give up, will find ways to make him chase her again.
And that is why I'm always online here. Otherwise I would've logged in probably once a month instead.
I applaud your consideration of the ladies, with your condom technique
Well it’s all a game.
Some guys don’t need to play games or have the time to play games. Courtship is a box ticked and then it’s progress to the next stage.
It’s their technique, they do everything.
They’re the ones to be applauded.
Then again, seems like someone wants to play games. So I played along.
If you know so much about courtship, why take so long to make a decision? Don't you want to take it to the next stage by now?
I don’t like taking indecision as an answer.
So the roulette wheel spins once again and destiny selects another winner.
Sooner or later I will get an answer.
One way or another.
Are you sure about that?
What if someone gets tired of waiting?
What if someone decided to stop playing the game, because all he wants is certainty and to settle down, and that the game is driving him mad?
What if he stops trusting women overall, after gaining nothing from playing the game, because all he gets is being riled up for something that wasn't his fault?
Have you ever considered that?
That you might lose your one and only chance in life to make a good change?
I'm just saying, not that it'll happen. I need some time to rephrase all that.
I've seen a bunch of wl's outside the shops over the years and I've never initiated it and never considered initiating it since they get it all the time.
Here's my rephrase:
I am tired of waiting. Tired of being riled up. Tired of not being given an exact date of when things are going to finally happen between us. Every time I see "hints" but nothing happens, as if empty promises were made.
All I know is that you played the biggest game on me. You said you were going interstate and staying there for one year before coming back. Then now you're telling me that you're still here.
I'm not mad, I know a woman's insecurity. The need to see if the chaser is serious and willing to take good care of her, not to leave her in the future because of a simple quarrel or because she's no longer as beautiful as she used to. The need to see if that man is a good man and not a player.
Right now I am giving you my final answer:
I really want to marry you. The same way I have said back in April. I saw my chance at finally being able to be yours. When you were on holiday for one month somewhere in 2021 or 2022, I really thought you had finally retired and probably found a husband. Knowing that wasn't the case later on, I was happy, because I still have a chance to be yours.
Right now, all I am requesting is that you make that decision. Stop playing this game, change a new layout and let's play a new game that involves us being together. Your rules, as long as we're not pretending to be who we're not.
I wasn't lying about being a Ngakpa, about our past life, about my certain abilities. I also wasn't lying about my life stories, it is not to impress you or anything.
Like I said before, I am willing to beg you to make your decision. I really miss you alot. Two months is pretty long, and that's why I took all my chances to communicate with you here on this forum.
No more pretending. You have my number. Every day I'm waiting for you to finally send me a text.
But if your answer is no, I will gracefully accept and stop logging into this forum. I will try again in the next lifetime if you're not going to give me a chance in this one.
As soon as I wrote the above, the General section went quite for almost 2 hours.
I knew something was at play.
I only need an answer. I'm not going to look for another WL, ML or even a non-SW to satisfy my need for a relationship if you choose to stay quiet like this.
If you want me to wait, fine - let me know how long, tell me daily that you're okay and you won't have visa issues.
If your visa is running out soon, please don't delay. Also it's better if we start moving in together if you're serious about me. No sex, sleep separately for a whole month or more until we're officially married. I know it excites you that we hold out on sex until a certain period of time and let it all out once we're official. I'm suggesting moving in so that you don't waste money renting on your own.
You wanted to retire for good. If you move in with me, I'll make sure you're cared for even if you don't have enough money.
If you don't reply even for ten years I'm assuming you're still trying to make up your mind. Unless you reply me in one way or another (text me on my private number preferred) I'm just gonna wait for you.
Like I said, if you don't give me an answer in this lifetime I'll wait until the next lifetime.
Let's make a new playing board. Your rules. Because if we get married, it's going to be your rules anyways. Happy wife, happy life.
You hinted me couple days ago about certain accounts. What conspired in the past hour confirms it.
I will check again tomorrow, the day after and so on if you haven't texted me.
What you are saying is what I’m experiencing.
But with a WL.
Not you.
Strange that.
Yes no doubt they do. Maybe I’ve picked the wrong fish to try and bag. Years ago at tech I tried and tried picking up this hot blonde chick. Never succeeded. It wasn’t till we crossed paths when I saw her at a gay rally in the city that I realised why she never went further.
It’s very very frustrating.
People don't understand, karma is not a fancy spiritual word. Karma means actions. Every action that we perform has consequences. Some consequences don't manifest immediately, it will get pent up like a balloon until one day it explodes.
If we're not ready for pent up consequences to happen, it can feel almost traumatic. You'd spend hours, days, weeks or even months analysing the situation.
Making amends in many different ways is a good way to purify karma. Making amends changes our character from bad to good. We don't have to stay in one character our whole lives - that character is mere illusion created in our minds.
Hopefully we'll get to where we want in the near future. Just remember, a banter is healthy as long as expectations are met. Making people wait for expectations that may not come is torture. It's like the difference between an inmate in prison and an immigration detainee - prison inmates know when they're getting out but immigration detainees can be detained indefinitely without an ultimatum.
Boy George - Karma
https://youtu.be/JmcA9LIIXWw?si=uATa1bf-YOqCQ6d7
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