Originally Posted by
jasng90
I do want it (just cant be blunt about it), as Colesbag mentioned strategically it may work very well to establish potential long term hookups but gotta create sexual tension first which took period of time of trial and error for me.
If I crave for it I'll just tease her and give her the clear signs but gotta have the ability to have good control, sensible and not to go all out like an horny beast.
If she gave clear indication she really wants it I'll probably play with her and will probably end up doing the deed somewhere discretly in public (like car, or in seclude park or beach?) or her place or mine.
In saying no, it create the tension of no being able to have what they want instead which makes them want you more if playing your cards right.
Always come in be prepared with a mindset to avoiding brining in emotions (such being too attached and needy), but bring your positive energy, still showing you still want to f*ck her but being respectful and not pushing her away too much.
Perhaps a FWB arrangement could work well in this case - Just got to have a fine balance between being overly attached/attracted to each other. (etc not seeing her too often and still go see other girls, and once in while come back to shop to see her)
Best experiences for me in the past that have work with others, that got me laid outside places (With other girls I've dated, even ended up myself in a 3 way triangle at one point with 2 guys and 1 girl) - I find most are wired quite similar once you peak their emotional interest) for me has always been unpredictable, spontaneous and unexpected to create a spicy affair.
But yes I agree, you cannot be too clear to tell her that there will never be any opputunity sex.
Will see how this situation cooks up in time.
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