Quote Originally Posted by andrewv View Post
I do not agree with you when you wrote "I should’ve confirmed the reason on the spot" because for me, it is a business transaction. Who cares what the "reason" was. What if she didn't like you (if she saw you on CCTV and felt not right), or she has her period and not feeling well, or has too many other client bookings, ... In reality, the "reason" does not matter one bit.


There is zero value in knowing the reason. If I were in your shoes, I would take my money and buy what I want somewhere else. The nature of this thread seems to be too focused on attachment and ego.

Successful punting is like sales, to be successful you must be able to handle rejection, and always remember it is all about money.

If this were my experience, I would not try to book this girl again. It leaves a hundred others to play with.
I agree with this sentiment right here. I was able to talk about this stuff with a private (and by private, i meant one without a pimp/ security, which, youd be surprise is a LOT of them) and she said outright that from her personal experience, certain combo of race and age of people ended up having a low standard of hygiene (even after the on premise shower), respect and common decency with her. She has been robbed multiple times, slapped and been roughly handled etc etc, Is the race card thing racist? Sure as hell yes, but at the end of the day, its her body that she is transacting and her safety comes first. She said if feels uneasy about the person, she feels very stiff and performs poorly, so she opted to just, bypass that entirely, saving her the poor experience, YOU the poor experience and saving YOU the money.

If the WL rejects you or ghosts you, then just take it as part of the hobby and have a regular as back up. It sucks fucking ass, but thats how it is.