
Originally Posted by
andrewv
All of the above enforces my view that brothels and massage shops
(a) are not meant to be, or be run like, professional businesses, and
(b) from their point of view we are just punters paying $$$$ to get our rocks off.
Isn't it time we woke up that we punters are not viewed as important people? After all, the girl you booked has already "serviced" another man before you, and will do the same to several more that day. It's what amuses me when I often read the comment "my regular".... She doesn't give a shit about you being regular or a big tipper, or you give her amazing orgasms.
Their view is to milk as many dollars as possible -- if a punter is on the premises and wants to pay more $$$$ to extend his booking, this is $$$$ moving to their pocket there and then, and "so what" if they push in-transit punters back 30 minutes or even cancel their bookings.
In summary, the women that work as hookers (or masseuses with handjob services) don't think much of us. And the healthy approach we men should take is to keep it as simple as a cash transaction. It was, and never will be, a special relationship. Those girls really don't want to remember you once the transaction has taken place.
After all, none of these beautiful Japanese or Korean (or any nationality) girls will go back to Tokyo or Seoul after a few months and thousands in their pocket and meet their friends and tell them about "the hundreds of amazing Aussie men I had sex with back in Sydney." They actually black it out of their memory. How do I know this? Because I've met several of them in Japan after they did their secret jobs in Australia.
There is nothing personal, romantic or special about us in their eyes. Zip. It'a cash only, baby!