Why is it that when a woman wants to maximize her income she's "a greedy whore", but when a man wants to maximize his income, he's a clever businessman? (Rhetorical question).
I've met any number of good providers, but then, I DON'T look down at a person due to their job. Don't know about you, but guess I'm like them, I work for the money, and I certainly want the most salary, benefits, perks, that I can get. But then, maybe you're independently wealthy, or have a trust fund. Myself, I don't. And perhaps I have a higher degree of empathy for the ladies because I've been an expat, and certainly when I'm working away from the Homeland, I am paid VERY well. And I'm not talking about road warriors (been there too); a business trip of 1, 2, 4 weeks doesn't count. Go live THERE as a foreigner.
Bottom line: it's a BUSINESS transaction. She can ask however much she wants, and I can always say "No thank you" (and have learned that phrase in a number of different languages). If we can agree on a price, fine, but if not, fine too. I ALWAYS know what HER experience is worth to me. I don't tip, I don't give gifts. But yet, my messages are answered (just good business) but also a human touch. As I've posted on the previous page, I've had any number of memorable human experiences over and above the basic transaction.
I've said many times, you treat her like an orifice, she'll be an orifice. You treat her like a person, she'll be a person. And I've met many a good provider while punting, just part of the enjoyment.












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