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    Quote Originally Posted by apokalypse View Post
    i was wondering any of you guys ask your fav to have session outside working hours or private?
    Yes , definitely and have no problems in getting their private numbers . Usually arrange meetings 3-4 days ahead so plenty of notice is given . Personally it*s like having a friends with benefits situation even though I*m paying for he benefit
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    Quote Originally Posted by 11Bravo View Post
    Those of us who came of age in prehistoric times (AKA land-line only ) remember the difficulty of finding someone who had changed offices . Only if a co-worker, still on the job, recognized you and knew your status, MIGHT you find out where she'd gone.

    On the arrival of mobiles (SIMPLE mobiles, voice and sms), their value was quickly learned for the advantage of direct contacts . Even if her English was MINIMAL, she could give an SMS to a (human) translator who would translate and then return an answer. Still, it was limited to sim cards (as in local), so you just might get a different voice when you called her number, she having sold the card, with her contacts, to a colleague on her departure.

    With smart mobiles and apps, all that has changed. Now independent of sim cards. Still subject to account termination (either she closing account intentionally on departure , or accidentally with a mobile being dropped in some body of water, usually a toilet ), but accounts do have a tendency to be kept, even business ones.

    Point is, take advantage and ask for the contact. Easier to delete than having to pine wondering, "where, oh where, is..."

    YMMV
    Go back further bro. Remember the humble pager?

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldfishMan View Post
    Go back further bro. Remember the humble pager?
    Pager? I'm not a number, I'm a free man...

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    Remember the first mobile phones, you had to carry a briefcase
    My level of sarcasm depends on your level of stupidity.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 11Bravo View Post
    Pager? I'm not a number, I'm a free man...
    I personally prefer the "balance" of pagers over full on mobile phones. Especially the one way pagers where you have to ring a call centre to get your message.

    People can still get in touch with you for emergencies, but you can take your time to contact them back due to N-number of reasons for the delay. It was a win-win situation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dotcumdotinyou View Post
    Remember the first mobile phones, you had to carry a briefcase
    Thankfully not old enough to remember that. My first mobile phone was an Ericsson EH 237 bought in 1994. Don't even remember why I bought it, lol...

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    i use to meet my regular ML for dinner and then a fuck in my hotel then she goes back to work the next day. But not anymore

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    Out of interest At what visit number people asking for their private number etc ?
    And are you offering a $ price per meet straight up ?

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    Don’t ask, have it offered to you. First time they offered me I was surprised, it hadn’t even crossed my mind to ask. To me it happened a few repeat visits, perhaps around 4 or 5

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    Quote Originally Posted by ditchtheboss View Post
    Don’t ask, have it offered to you. First time they offered me I was surprised, it hadn’t even crossed my mind to ask. To me it happened a few repeat visits, perhaps around 4 or 5
    same , though was given to me after 2nd or 3rd session

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    Yeah I was surprised. I never asked. But when some of my regular WLs were about to retire from shop routine they'd tell me a few weeks ahead and give me their number asking to do privates. I think you can create a business whatsapp or just separate sim

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    Quote Originally Posted by ditchtheboss View Post
    Don’t ask, have it offered to you. First time they offered me I was surprised, it hadn’t even crossed my mind to ask. To me it happened a few repeat visits, perhaps around 4 or 5
    Yeap - same here mate...

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    Quote Originally Posted by sync3d3d View Post
    Out of interest At what visit number people asking for their private number etc ?
    And are you offering a $ price per meet straight up ?
    Answer below is NOT for dating, but for business, office visits.

    Given my history, and given I'm transient, I ask. After just 1 visit, I know, with some, she'll be a regular, so I ask. Others, I know it'll be a "one and done'" so I don't bother. With others, where there's a potential, I'll give her another shot (pun intended), and if there's potential, I'll ask. She can always decline, but most do provide. Just good business, the smart ones understand the benefits of a client list and repeat business. I don't try and bypass the shop, but a direct contact, for me, is more useful. Makes her easy to find, easy to book, and an early notice if there will be any service limitations on that day. Win-Win. The Covid gap years, not a problem. With favs, kept in touch during the gap. With keepers, when travel returned, just messaged, reintroduced myself (NOT a cold call), found out where they were working, and Bob's Your Uncle.

    The caveat? The feelings, (business), have to be mutual, where she sees YOU as having potential. If she thinks you're just collecting contacts for ego, then she'll most likely decline.

    YMMV

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    I've had a regular for almost 5 years. I've lost count how many times I've seen her, but it's definitely over 100 times. I have her number, she has mine. I don't want a ml as a girlfriend. We message each other every now and then. She will leave late next year. But has invited me to visit her back in her country. I don't think about when she is leaving, I just enjoy the now while she is here.

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    Only twice in over 20 years of punting I have experienced a girl give me her phone number. Was flattered and surprised. A Malaysian girl at former 582Harris St wrote her number on a scrap of paper and said if you want it for free call me. I nursed that beautiful perfumed scrap of paper with her lovely sweet handwriting for 2 days until I came to my senses, screwed it up and threw it away. dodged a bullet. For a guy there is no such thing as getting it for free. Accept it and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Themassageking View Post
    She will leave late next year. But has invited me to visit her back in her country.
    Don't discount the worth of that invitation. Certainly it can fade with time, as she gets on with her life, but if serious and still valid... She speaks the language, she KNOWS how things work, and you'll never pay the tourist price or be ripped off. You can set the itinerary and she'll handle the logistics. Nothing better than seeing a place with a local...

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    Quote Originally Posted by 11Bravo View Post
    Don't discount the worth of that invitation. Certainly it can fade with time, as she gets on with her life, but if serious and still valid... She speaks the language, she KNOWS how things work, and you'll never pay the tourist price or be ripped off. You can set the itinerary and she'll handle the logistics. Nothing better than seeing a place with a local...
    Yeah I'm not taking the invitation serious. If it happens it happens and having a local show me around would be great.

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    I had a significant number long session with my regular last Sunday &we had a nice lunch out too.

    She mentioned at one stage that at another significant number we could go away for a few days together & asked me for suggestions on where we could go. We had a nice chat about that & I'm still mulling over that...

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    Quote Originally Posted by B2Brules View Post
    Only twice in over 20 years of punting I have experienced a girl give me her phone number. Was flattered and surprised. A Malaysian girl at former 582Harris St wrote her number on a scrap of paper and said if you want it for free call me. I nursed that beautiful perfumed scrap of paper with her lovely sweet handwriting for 2 days until I came to my senses, screwed it up and threw it away. dodged a bullet. For a guy there is no such thing as getting it for free. Accept it and move on.

    I see it as a way of them nurturing a business relationship, that is all.

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