Can a WL ever adjust to a normal life?

[konfuzion]

I see 3 old wl on linkedin one girl has picture say looking for work 555

[Candy1234]

I know a couple of WLs that is still working after so many times of saying they will do this job for another year, another year passed and still saying the same thing. Oh well I can’t complain, I need to unload sometimes so need them to be around lol.

From what these WLs told me that they want to send money back home to buy more properties for retirement, also send kids to good schools. Of course there’s many doing this job to buy high end goods, go to Mr B’s and you will see some familiar faces decked out in logos.

Half an hour work no tax for them is more than the average dude working 2-3 hours after tax. I guess easy money??? Kinder.

[Revenant]

Is Mr B’s the place? Another I see doesn’t want to go there for some reason, in fact she stays away from Thai town, I thought she must be too well known or has had issues or she didn’t want to be seen with me in that area. After going out in Oxford st I deliberately stopped out the front of Mr B’s for a drink with her as I thought she’d like being with the other Thais but that wasn’t the case. It was like let’s get down to Haymarket. Yeah she’s a post op, hence Oxford st and if you’re dating one you’ve gotta flaunt her.

[Zoobender]

Is Mr B’s the place? Another I see doesn’t want to go there for some reason, in fact she stays away from Thai town, I thought she must be too well known or has had issues or she didn’t want to be seen with me in that area. After going out in Oxford st I deliberately stopped out the front of Mr B’s for a drink with her as I thought she’d like being with the other Thais but that wasn’t the case. It was like let’s get down to Haymarket. Yeah she’s a post op, hence Oxford st and if you’re dating one you’ve gotta flaunt her.

LOL dating? Really? You sure?

[Revenant]

LOL dating? Really? You sure?

Yep 100% sure. The only issue was the walking down to Haymarket. I was wearing comfortable shoes navy denim jeans and she on the other hand was wearing a black halter top, skin tight navy denim jeans and tan coloured high heels and complimented with a tan coloured LV hand bag. That part of town doesn’t have great footpaths. We dressed in similar colours as she always asks what am I wearing before we meet. Out of all the girls I date she’s the best dresser, has the best make up and best hair.

[Double_Adapter]

Yes, a WL can adjust to normal life

Everyone's definition of what a normal life is supposed to be is somewhat twisted and warped

[mn69]

MR B's the Thai place isnt it.

I'd say all Thai girls. Once a WL, she will always be a WL.

This is because of the never ending demanding family back in Isaan

[Double_Adapter]

MR B's the the place isnt it.

I'd say all Thai girls. Once a WL, she will always be a WL.

This is because of the never ending demanding family back in Isaan

I know of a few old bald fat farangs that are supporting a few small villages in Chiang Mai (near a wild elephant park)

[mn69]

I know of a few old bald fat farangs that are supporting a few small villages in Chiang Mai (near a wild elephant park)

*MR B's the Thai place isnt it.

555
And the nice old bald fat Farangs are also supporting his Thai Wife's "brother".

Who is secretely her Thai boyfriend...

[Zoobender]

Yep 100% sure. The only issue was the walking down to Haymarket. I was wearing comfortable shoes navy denim jeans and she on the other hand was wearing a black halter top, skin tight navy denim jeans and tan coloured high heels and complimented with a tan coloured LV hand bag. That part of town doesn’t have great footpaths. We dressed in similar colours as she always asks what am I wearing before we meet. Out of all the girls I date she’s the best dresser, has the best make up and best hair.

So much detail, trying to build a believable narrative lil bro.

[themort]

I know of a few old bald fat farangs that are supporting a few small villages in Chiang Mai (near a wild elephant park)

removed redundant post

[Candy1234]

*MR B's the Thai place isnt it.

555
And the nice old bald fat Farangs are also supporting his Thai Wife's "brother".

Who is secretely her Thai boyfriend...

Yeh man, you like Asian girls especially Thai then go there. You probably bump into at least 1 WL or ML lol. I went there a few times this year ran into a few privates, luckily just a wink and smile, they somehow knew I’m with my non punting friends. Later one told me Mr B’s is now a picking up (paid) ground for white dudes lol don’t know, kinder remind me of Thailand with the 60ish old man hanging behind a 40ish old woman like her bodyguard.

[Abracadabra]

Without a doubt they can but it depends on a number of variables.
Key is how they have managed the mental and physical impacts their WL life has imparted on them often by controlling their hours and roster frequency, time away recuperating etc plus importantly, compartmentalizing their WL life from their "normal life".
But probably, the key reconciliation they need to make in order to walk away, is accepting the big money days on their back are over.

Can be done and I know of one high end WL who is now leading a "normal" life.

Also, I think I mentioned way back in this thread a WL I met in 2019 ~ great punt, saw her a few times and on the last visit she announced she was finishing in 2 weeks time : as she put it she had saved enough for a certain apartment in Sydney and she was gone..

[Revenant]

So much detail, trying to build a believable narrative lil bro.

My lil bro needs no narrative. Her top and the two pairs of CK jeans I bought her were from one of our shopping trips, they’re cheap, a couple of hundred each and if I’m dating and they want something within reason I buy it, no stress. For example she looks gorgeous and I want her staying that way, so she selects the makeup from DJs together with perfume for her and I and I willingly pay. I wouldn’t want her looking anything but hot. You have a nice car you pay to get it washed correct? No difference. Besides she hasn’t cost me a fortune and she’s not greedy. This one is more of a novelty though and that’s why I chased her. You get the detail because I think it’s in your interest to know what I get up to.

[mn69]

Yeh man, you like Asian girls especially Thai then go there. You probably bump into at least 1 WL or ML lol. I went there a few times this year ran into a few privates, luckily just a wink and smile, they somehow knew I’m with my non punting friends. Later one told me Mr B’s is now a picking up (paid) ground for white dudes lol don’t know, kinder remind me of Thailand with the 60ish old man hanging behind a 40ish old woman like her bodyguard.

Yeh bro. I love Thai women. I specifically like the ones from Isaan with the darker, more tanned skin. Exotic and sexy

Thanks for the intel. Wow, Mr B sounds like iBar and Lucifer in Pattaya. Pick up ground (paid) for Farangs/white dudes as well. Place is full of WL's and Freelancers. Our very own Thailand right in our own backyard here in Sydney.

[Candy1234]

Yeh bro. I love Thai women. I specifically like the ones from Isaan with the darker, more tanned skin. Exotic and sexy

Thanks for the intel. Wow, Mr B sounds like iBar and Lucifer in Pattaya. Pick up ground (paid) for Farangs/white dudes as well. Place is full of WL's and Freelancers. Our very own Thailand right in our own backyard here in Sydney.

Yup definitely a place you should go at least once. Don’t get me wrong, most are there to have fun on their non working time, and mostly likely minority are WL/ML. You don’t want a slap approaching the wrong one lol. I reckon cheaper and safer to just book them through a shop.

I saw the private there with her “bf” so of course I respect her privacy life, didn’t do anything to suss the dude. Who knows maybe he’s that clueless on what she does for a living and genuinely thinks she’s a “normal” girl? Either way good luck to them all.

[Hedonisticfun]

WLs and MLs can make a lot of money in a very short time. They sometimes spend lavishly buying all high end apparel and handbags, sometimes they gamble and sometimes they use it to travel around the world.

This lifestyle can go on for years, if they start work at 20 and work for even 5 years, that's a good 5 years of the high life.

So how do they adjust to a "normal" life if they ever want to quit? Even if they marry a rich guy, they would still need to reduce their expenditure significantly. No more new handbags every month, no more reckless gambling, and no more international trips every couple of months.

Have you ever known girls who were able to quit and live a normal life? If so how old were they and what kind of lives did they live? Or do most just try to work for as long as possible because they can't escape the lifestyle?

Of course they can and do . Not all are in for the high life as some punters comment , they might just be in the industry for the short term to pay off debts , provide for their kids til old enough or save for something , just have had enough of the sex industry and punters , or the sex just doesn*t do it for them. While yes , there are those that lavish the lifestyle most don*t going by the plethora of ads that only appear for a while then disappear forever WL never to be see again in any locality or country

[Niceguy11]

Without a doubt they can but it depends on a number of variables.
Key is how they have managed the mental and physical impacts their WL life has imparted on them often by controlling their hours and roster frequency, time away recuperating etc plus importantly, compartmentalizing their WL life from their "normal life".
But probably, the key reconciliation they need to make in order to walk away, is accepting the big money days on their back are over.

Can be done and I know of one high end WL who is now leading a "normal" life.

Also, I think I mentioned way back in this thread a WL I met in 2019 ~ great punt, saw her a few times and on the last visit she announced she was finishing in 2 weeks time : as she put it she had saved enough for a certain apartment in Sydney and she was gone..

Yeah its a tricky situation for the girls. We all have motives in life and I'm sure they all have reasons for doing it.

I also think about punters and if we can ever adjust to normal life. Reality is, my life is not the same as it was pre punting. Hard to explain but life is just different. Meeting girls, dating girls, arguments, all that stuff with WL's.

How can we ever forget being a punter ? Just like the old saying for smokers. Once a smoker, always a smoker. Once a punter, always a punter. No regrets ever starting but sometimes I think it would have been better that I didn't start punting. I suppose everything happens for a reason.

[Hedonisticfun]

Yeah its a tricky situation for the girls. We all have motives in life and I'm sure they all have reasons for doing it.

I also think about punters and if we can ever adjust to normal life. Reality is, my life is not the same as it was pre punting. Hard to explain but life is just different. Meeting girls, dating girls, arguments, all that stuff with WL's.

How can we ever forget being a punter ? Just like the old saying for smokers. Once a smoker, always a smoker. Once a punter, always a punter. No regrets ever starting but sometimes I think it would have been better that I didn't start punting. I suppose everything happens for a reason.

Hiya Nice , seems like you have some regrets being a punter or more likely too much of a punter . I made my decision ages ago (about 7 years ago) , first had a bit of a dabble , then met a woman I was deeply involved in after years of being single but the more I got to know her the less likley this was the ONE ... too much her way . After that went back to punting AND with a vengenace and never looked back . Freedom , getting my rocks off , no arguments or hassles . Yeah , life might of been different , married , kids but didn*t happen and just accepted it

[mn69]

Yup definitely a place you should go at least once. Don’t get me wrong, most are there to have fun on their non working time, and mostly likely minority are WL/ML. You don’t want a slap approaching the wrong one lol. I reckon cheaper and safer to just book them through a shop.

I saw the private there with her “bf” so of course I respect her privacy life, didn’t do anything to suss the dude. Who knows maybe he’s that clueless on what she does for a living and genuinely thinks she’s a “normal” girl? Either way good luck to them all.

555 it should be okay. I heard alot of Thai girls, especially the ones who travel to foreign countries have been involved in the bar scene or sex industry in one way or another. Not all, but alot !!

They probably go to Mr B's after work to get more customers. Same way the Bargirls all go to ibar after work in Pattaya to get more customers for the night.

Her "bf". More like her "sponsor". He probably does know but just looks the other way. Same way the old bald fat Farangs romances the hookers from a bar in Thailand and even marries them. And all these hookers already have a few kids from a previous Thai man (To this day, I still dont know why anyone in their right mind would do this 555)