Can a WL ever adjust to a normal life?

[Elbortomorton]

From personal experience I’d say yes.

My ex gf I met at a massage parlour and we were in a relationship for over 10 years.

The first couple years together she continued to work massage but eventually decided she had enough and I helped her find a new career etc etc.

Won’t get into all the details but she left me about 4 years ago to start a new relationship with her work friend lol

So yeah she adjusted to the real world but in the end she left for another dude, and this dude was cheating on his wife to get with her lol

Anyway long story short women in general are always looking to upgrade , the new guy was better off financially than me so yeah it is what it is.

Now I am free to punt with no partner at home so it’s a win win scenario for me

[chemistry84]

The men these women want wouldn't go for them after they find out she was a sex worker... And my opinion is never take a sex worker seriously because if the money ever runs low they'll revert back to normal programming and start handing out rub and tugs. Plus you wouldn't want to deal with the problems if someone ever finds our your wife/girlfriend was sucking off other men lol..

And as the rule of probabilities some will beat the odds, find men and settle down but how often do those relationships last? I think for many girls the moment they get involved in the sex industry is going to fuck up their careers. Only time I can see it somewhat working is say Japanese or Korean girls comes to AUS, makes money and then returns back home and their boyfriend/husband had no idea what they were doing in AUS. I do know however one girl at CBDstyle massage had her relationship and potential marriage called off after her partner found out she was giving BBBJs down here.

The other thing how many of them are working say at a massage parlour 5-6 days a week, getting old and finding it even more difficult finding a relationship or even a marriage? Not to mention any chances they have finding a corporate or a normal job becomes harder after getting used to quick cash with basically no tax.

[Revenant]

From personal experience I’d say yes.

My ex gf I met at a massage parlour and we were in a relationship for over 10 years.

The first couple years together she continued to work massage but eventually decided she had enough and I helped her find a new career etc etc.

Won’t get into all the details but she left me about 4 years ago to start a new relationship with her work friend lol

So yeah she adjusted to the real world but in the end she left for another dude, and this dude was cheating on his wife to get with her lol

Anyway long story short women in general are always looking to upgrade , the new guy was better off financially than me so yeah it is what it is.

Now I am free to punt with no partner at home so it’s a win win scenario for me

Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all.

Can I ask a few questions? Was she nearing her useby date workwise? If you lived together did she talk shop when she got home, discuss her good or bad days. How did you cope with those discussions? Did you ever get jealous?

More importantly how was the sex and did it taper off before the split or was it always how you wanted it?

You presume~expect great sex from a sex worker and wouldn’t date one or commence a relationship if the sex wasn’t hot, correct?

[faruk]

Anyway long story short women in general are always looking to upgrade , the new guy was better off financially than me so yeah it is what it is.

Women don't love men, they love their value.

The men these women want wouldn't go for them after they find out she was a sex worker... And my opinion is never take a sex worker seriously because if the money ever runs low they'll revert back to normal programming and start handing out rub and tugs. Plus you wouldn't want to deal with the problems if someone ever finds our your wife/girlfriend was sucking off other men lol..

And as the rule of probabilities some will beat the odds, find men and settle down but how often do those relationships last? I think for many girls the moment they get involved in the sex industry is going to fuck up their careers. Only time I can see it somewhat working is say Japanese or Korean girls comes to AUS, makes money and then returns back home and their boyfriend/husband had no idea what they were doing in AUS. I do know however one girl at CBDstyle massage had her relationship and potential marriage called off after her partner found out she was giving BBBJs down here.

The other thing how many of them are working say at a massage parlour 5-6 days a week, getting old and finding it even more difficult finding a relationship or even a marriage? Not to mention any chances they have finding a corporate or a normal job becomes harder after getting used to quick cash with basically no tax.

This point often goes unnoticed. Yes, while they can make serious money working as WLs, what they are sacrificing is building a career for later on in life. When they're 40 or 50 with no reputable resume, what are they going to do for work? No matter how much savings they have they still need an income.

[Double_Adapter]

Some blokes here (eg Jamesz11, PussybonP, Reggie et al....same bloke btw) are fucken clueless and couldn't tell the difference between shit and clay, condiitioned by the system, and watching too many romcoms and disney movies they prefer to believe the lie.

Female nature is a bitch, and you just gotta know how to safely mount, ride and dismount the beast.

[Elbortomorton]

Better to have loved and lost than never loved at all.

Can I ask a few questions? Was she nearing her useby date workwise? If you lived together did she talk shop when she got home, discuss her good or bad days. How did you cope with those discussions? Did you ever get jealous?

More importantly how was the sex and did it taper off before the split or was it always how you wanted it?

You presume~expect great sex from a sex worker and wouldn’t date one or commence a relationship if the sex wasn’t hot, correct?

Probably not the use by date as asians keep there youth, I’d say she had enough and was looking to the future. And I think she wanted out based on the fact of entering a relationship and then getting another job.

Never talked about work and I never asked, I guess it was just in the background, I mean a job is a job I guess.

I didn’t actually get jealous because I guess I was once the customer, I mean I know what happens there and I just didn’t really think about it, we got along well and it was a normal relationship.

Sex was always good but yes it tapered off at the end, this was most likely based on the fact of her affair with the work friend I am guessing.

The relationship basically happened because we had a connection I guess

[tezzaman18]

It just his observation. There is no harm done sharing one's experiences - just have to qualify what's said. There are similar comments made by other bros too about their visits ......

Seriously dude, you are obsessed! You are judging a whole lot of women based on your small sample size which is distorted by the places you have chosen to spend time in.

[Revenant]

Probably not the use by date as asians keep there youth, I’d say she had enough and was looking to the future. And I think she wanted out based on the fact of entering a relationship and then getting another job.

Never talked about work and I never asked, I guess it was just in the background, I mean a job is a job I guess.

I didn’t actually get jealous because I guess I was once the customer, I mean I know what happens there and I just didn’t really think about it, we got along well and it was a normal relationship.

Sex was always good but yes it tapered off at the end, this was most likely based on the fact of her affair with the work friend I am guessing.

The relationship basically happened because we had a connection I guess

Thanks for your response. I’m curious because the cart is before the horse. The sex is before the relationship and I suppose that’s one box ticked before you commenced that. If the sex was bad during the punt would you have become romantically involved?

[Elbortomorton]

Thanks for your response. I’m curious because the cart is before the horse. The sex is before the relationship and I suppose that’s one box ticked before you commenced that. If the sex was bad during the punt would you have become romantically involved?

Probably not. It is all part of the package when dating a chick right

[mn69]

I had to google 555, it means pity?

People are a “product of the sum total of their ancestor’s DNA and experiences” hence a Falang can be found anywhere.

5 in Thai is "Ha"

While the majority might be Isaan girls, it doesn't mean that all Isaan girls do. But that attitude is prevalent, unfortunately, especially when she's working overseas. Too many guys assume she's obviously there to work and the harassment can be severe, both at work and outside of work.

They are all the same. If she is from Isaan, single mother, sending money back to family. Run away fast, dont walk. Most likely has been involved and worked in the sex industry. Was previously or still is a bargirl

555:
1 use in Thailand is same as LOL

Another Thai use is how WG's (or jealous Farangs) refer to mainly Japanese punters: 5 inches, 5 minutes, 5000 baht, given that, at least back when, they were known to throw money around, punting being much cheaper in BKK than Japan. There was, still is, a "Japanese" soi near Patpong, Soi Thaniya, catering to Japanese punters.

yes. 555 = hahaha. If you have spent time in Thailand and Thai girls, you'll know this is how they message "LOL"
Definitely jealous Farangs. Japanese punters are known to have deep pockets and have more money than Farangs. Biggest spenders there. And they are the most preferred for Thai girls also. Farangs mad as the young hot Thai girls only see Japanese guys. And Korean guys.

Most old bald fat Farangs in Thailand are cheap-Charlies and broke-asses. And the Thai girls know this

[mn69]

Seriously dude, you are obsessed! You are judging a whole lot of women based on your small sample size which is distorted by the places you have chosen to spend time in.

It just his observation. There is no harm done sharing one's experiences - just have to qualify what's said. There are similar comments made by other bros too about their visits ......

Cheers. Its what I saw with my own 2 eyes while I was there. Old bald fat Farangs with ugly, older low class Thai Hookers from Isaan.

Thai girls (WL or normal) are all the same at end of the day. Just doing what they can to survive. There's a famous saying in Thailand - "Money number one".
Only difference is, high class Thai girls just aim higher and go for high net worth guys (usually other Chinese-Thai's from Business/Political families).

While Isaan girls only choice (especially if she already has kids) are the old bald fat Farangs as no Thai guy in his right mind will want a single mother with kids from another man

[Revenant]

I concur with mn69 . I’ve found if they ask “are you on holidays”? You say yes then they know you’re a “two week millionaire” and are happy to proceed. Again I never scrimp and always tip big as it’s part of the game.

Like fishing you’ve gotta put the burley out to get get what you want. The Farangs who live there are on a budget possibly a pension and that’s why the hot girls stay away from them.

[11Bravo]

I concur with mn69 . I’ve found if they ask “are you on holidays”? You say yes then they know you’re a “two week millionaire” and are happy to proceed. Again I never scrimp and always tip big as it’s part of the game.

Like fishing you’ve gotta put the burley out to get get what you want. The Farangs who live there are on a budget possibly a pension and that’s why the hot girls stay away from them.

Decades ago, internationally, I posted a WG speak translation. From what I can remember:

• Where you come from?: How big is your wallet and what is your risk?
  
  
• How long you stay {____}?: Can I charge you the tourist price or do I have to charge the local price?
  
  
• First time {____}?: Can I take you for a ride, or do you have a clue?
  
  
• Where you stay?: Confirm size of wallet, what is the travel time, and another what is the risk?
  
  
• What your name? Have to call you something (though I'll probably revert to Baby, Honey, Darling...)

Myself, I ALWAYS answer "First time {___}, arrived today, come here on holiday". Fun to watch her eyes widen as she's thinking "jackpot". Then I sprinkle in some local language words, some local geographic references... just to see how long it takes for reality to register. The normal result is a poke on the arm and a GREAT time. I know the going rates, pay and tip appropriately. Throwing out a lot of bait might hook you a fish, but that shark knows she can play you... Myself, I'll skip the lead soprano and pick from the chorus... much better time and much less drama.

[mn69]

"Thai girls (WL or normal) are all the same at end of the day"

You got a real weird perspective dude. You seem angry. Look up yoga classes in your area.

Thats fine bro. You seem like you just want to troll and trying to trigger/gaslight people on here. Aint gonna work. Why dont you give us your experience/perspective too and contribute to the discussion.

I have my perspective and you have yours. Thats the beauty of diversity and free thinking. God Bless Australia !!

[11Bravo]

It just his observation. There is no harm done sharing one's experiences - just have to qualify what's said. There are similar comments made by other bros too about their visits ......

They are all the same. If she is from Isaan, single mother, sending money back to family. Run away fast, dont walk. Most likely has been involved and worked in the sex industry. Was previously or still is a bargirl.

Most old bald fat Farangs in Thailand are cheap-Charlies and broke-asses. And the Thai girls know this

Cheers. Its what I saw with my own 2 eyes while I was there. Old bald fat Farangs with ugly, older low class Thai Hookers from Isaan.

Thai girls (WL or normal) are all the same at end of the day. Just doing what they can to survive. There's a famous saying in Thailand - "Money number one".
Only difference is, high class Thai girls just aim higher and go for high net worth guys (usually other Chinese-Thai's from Business/Political families).

While Isaan girls only choice (especially if she already has kids) are the old bald fat Farangs as no Thai guy in his right mind will want a single mother with kids from another man

Well, the trouble with stereotypes (Indian, Thai, OBFF, whatever) is while the sterotypes might generally be true, you can miss some great times with some nice people if it's a blanket ban.

Single mother sending money home to family = takes care of family, whether or not she is a single mother. Much prefer the company of those than of fathers who bail on their family, ducking child support, bragging how they're scamming the government... You just never know who's sitting on that bar stool next to you. I've posted before, I have an agreement with my best mate. If I ever look like those OBFF's, sitting on beach road at noon in their wifebeater T's (as someone else pointed out, with the faded footie or ancient rock band logo), shorts, sandals, buy me a beer and a bbbj, then, that night, take the pillow and end me; THANK YOU.

I'll pass along the advice I got decades ago from an old Thai hand: if you do get involved with a Thai (or pretty much any Asian), know that you will be expected to support her kid, her parents. You might be able to draw a line with siblings, but kid, parents, no (ole Asian saying, "Repay the mother's milk"). They are FAMILY. The trick is for them to consider YOU FAMILY. Family or stepping stone - that IS the question. YMMV

[MrSeven]

I thii oh habits they’d sex life and relationships that end up suffering moreso and can’t be undone

[gpav]

The sister in laws fought over washing my feet.

[vitamin]

What do you Think happens once they stop working?.

They just move on. get other jobs. get boy friends become wives.

Think of all the girls in Sex industry around the world. When have you ever met a woman in her 40's and been like yup. Previous WL.

Just like of the thousands of men you meet in your lifetime. You can never really pick out who's a regular punter and who is boy scout clean.

Few years back when I was friends with a mamasan just chatting at coffee shops around Stratty. So often she'll say high and chat up with random Korean girls who are all completely normal with boyfriends, going to school, doing cosmetic procedures. And then say afterwards previous WL.

[GoldfishMan]

No idea why you guys keep responding to this guy. So insincere with all his alt accounts and fake stories, you might as well be responding to a brain in a vat. In person, may be you can call it human interaction, but on an anonymous forum on the internet? It's just a brain in a vat...

[Revenant]

Adjusting to a normal life at a hypothetical age of fifty. For starters what guy is going to want to start a relationship with a fifty year old woman?

When I was twenty I banged a fifty year old milf. She had five shops in HK a boat in the harbour with full time captain and plenty of large diamonds on her fingers. The attraction was pumping a good looking older woman, a box ticked, that was it. Then I dropped her.

If she didn’t have money, looked the part and was very well kept I’d have never gone that far in the first place. She had a son my age even.

So how on earth is a woman who is fifty or thereabouts going to get a guy and hold onto him unless she’s got something he wants?

Men can pick and choose, women ?