I got played by a ML

[funksit]

Nice one, I had a good laugh

[Rogerram]

Why did she even ask me to be her boyfriend in the first place?

Also I only want people who are from China who came to Australia at the age of 14+ to answer this. (including special autonomous regions)

兄弟,我担心你正在伤害自己。

请不要天真。这些女性工作是为了赚钱。和所有中国人一样。主要优先事项是在回国之前尽可能多地 赚钱。

我们都明白这一点。如果您不明白这是一项商业交易，我认为您继续这个爱好是不健康的。您必须尊重这些女性， 并意识到她们只将您视为客户。

[jedibear]

Why did she even ask me to be her boyfriend in the first place?

Also I only want people who are from China who came to Australia at the age of 14+ to answer this. (including special autonomous regions)

The same reason why some guys promise a virgin to marry them...to get them into bed. Only guys dont get paid and she gets paid for a fuck...

Sorry I'm not of the demographic u mention, but it is what it is

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[jedibear]

Her boyfriend for the next hour to fork out more cash.

Yeah that

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[Harp0]

Next time introduce yourself as Dr. Linq not Centrelinq, solved.

You win the internet today dt333

[Axiom_]

Next time introduce yourself as Dr. Linq not Centrelinq, solved.

This has to be the best comment for the month!

[GoldfishMan]

He got played or he's trying to play all of us?

[Digby]

1. I went to a Chinese massage shop.

4. She asks if I want to be her boyfriend
5. I said no but we can be friends

Explain this shit. Literally played with my feelings for no reason.

You declined her and that’s the end of the story.

At the time you held the upper hand by rejecting her proposal, then you had second thoughts about rejecting her, chased after her and now she’s got the strong hand. It’s evident by you starting this thread and you’ve lost unfortunately.

You should have made that hand a winner and accepted her then played her, well that’s what I’d do. Then when your confidence is up and running move onto a second GF and a third if you’re capable of maintaining that many. One falls by the wayside you pick up another. Easy.

We all know that WLs and MLs besides working play around. Is there any harm in you doing the same?

[Linq]

You declined her and that’s the end of the story.

At the time you held the upper hand by rejecting her proposal, then you had second thoughts about rejecting her, chased after her and now she’s got the strong hand. It’s evident by you starting this thread and you’ve lost unfortunately.

You should have made that hand a winner and accepted her then played her, well that’s what I’d do. Then when your confidence is up and running move onto a second GF and a third if you’re capable of maintaining that many. One falls by the wayside you pick up another. Easy.

We all know that WLs and MLs besides working play around. Is there any harm in you doing the same?

Thank you for your insightful reply.
1)Then why did she ask for my WeChat even after I said we can be friends.
2) If the answer is to maintain clientele then why didn't she reply to me once despite her posting on WeChat moments which means she can access her WeChat.

[MasterPaizuri]

Just change your WeChat handle to "Captain Save A Hoe"

She'll start talking to you guaranteed

[keebab]

Thank you for your insightful reply.
1)Then why did she ask for my WeChat even after I said we can be friends.
2) If the answer is to maintain clientele then why didn't she reply to me once despite her posting on WeChat moments which means she can access her WeChat.

Every WL phone I've ever seen has around 40 unread messages across multiple messaging services from multiple blokes. You've been left on read, nothing more. She'll get back around to you when business is quiet.

Happens to us all.

[diligent]

FEELSBADMAN,

Hey there, my good friend LINQ. I’m really sorry to hear what you’re going through. I would suggest to don’t waste your energy trying to figure out why she acted the way she did. The truth is, only she can answer that.

Remember, it’s her job to charm you and make you catch feelings, but you need to stay two steps ahead. Many WL/ML use these tactics to get what they want, whether it's money, gifts, or even a ticket to citizenship/ Permanent-Residency.

Take care of yourself, my friend. Healing takes time, but I believe you’ll get through this. Why not try distracting yourself with a new hobby (other than punting)? It might help shift your focus and bring some joy back into your life.

All the best!

[Zoobender]

Thank you for your insightful reply.
1)Then why did she ask for my WeChat even after I said we can be friends.
2) If the answer is to maintain clientele then why didn't she reply to me once despite her posting on WeChat moments which means she can access her WeChat.

I think she must have realised you have down syndrome and thought I don't need this in my life.

[ColesBag]

1. I went to a Chinese massage shop.
2. The girl asked if I had just finished work.
3. I said I'm looking for work
4. She asks if I want to be her boyfriend
5. I said no but we can be friends
6. She asks for my WeChat
7. I msg her 2 days later, no reply.
8. I msg 6 days after that, no reply.
9. I see her posting on her WeChat moments which means she isn't dead or locked out of the account
10. I msg her 3 days later after that asking if she forgot about me, no reply.
11. I sent her a video of myself like I usually do here an hour later, no reply.

Explain this shit. Literally played with my feelings for no reason.

Also I only want people who are from China who came to Australia at the age of 13+ to answer this. (including special autonomous regions)

You're an easy mark or as the vernacular goes. A sucker.

[Digby]

Thank you for your insightful reply.
1)Then why did she ask for my WeChat even after I said we can be friends.
2) If the answer is to maintain clientele then why didn't she reply to me once despite her posting on WeChat moments which means she can access her WeChat.

keebab knows why

Every WL phone I've ever seen has around 40 unread messages across multiple messaging services from multiple blokes. You've been left on read, nothing more. She'll get back around to you when business is quiet.

Happens to us all.

They read your message header and swipe up so it still shows as not read to you. You really are left hanging, it’s a game she’s playing, nothing personal. As a test ask her out to something that is too tempting to refuse. If she agrees then the ball is back in your court.

I usually start with “I know you mentioned it before but I forgot when you have a day off, when is that”? Followed by “I have something I’d like to ask you” and now it’s your turn to leave her hanging.

You’re not to chase remember.

[mn69]

This is not a game and she is not playing you. She just is not interested

I guarantee you though, she will be interested and will be chasing/messaging guys who look like Brad Pitt and Chris Hemsworth non-stop

Facts bro

[Double_Adapter]

A possible scenario for the sequence of events leading to Linqs dilemma.

1-3 : you rocked up to the shop suited up - possibly after a job interview as you told the chick you were looking for work. The chick liked what she saw and probably found you were handsome, intelligent, and assumed you were single and filthy rich, ergo a good catch.

4-6: she asks if you wanted to be her boyfriend (she wants the upper hand).
You rejected her and put her in the friend zone, so she asks for your WeChat instead (you had the upper hand)

We don't really know what transpired between 6-7, perhaps she realised you were still living at home with your parents and therefore flat broke, or you weren't as well hung or romantic as she imagined, or you didn't satisfy her enough sexually. Maybe you said too much during the session, she connected the dots and put you in the 'ick' zone.

7-11: after the session you relived the session and caught the feels for her and this is when you became needy, clingy, desperate and thirsty. She ignored you and left you hanging (she now has the upper hand)

If she blocks or ghosts you then all is lost and she thinks you're a stalker.
If she texts you back it means business is slow/quiet.
if she texts you back apologising or providing excuses she's had a change of heart and so you're still in with a chance

[11Bravo]

Let's see:
Winning hand
Losing hand
Ante up
Check
Bluffing
Call
Deal me in
Deal me out
Fold.

FMTT. Too complicated a game for me. I just lay my cards on the table (along with a couple of pineapples). Less stress, more fun. (And good chance she answers your messages)

[Digby]

This is not a game and she is not playing you. She just is not interested

I guarantee you though, she will be interested and will be chasing/messaging guys who look like Brad Pitt and Chris Hemsworth non-stop

Facts bro

That may be the case but let’s get real, those guys take their pick of the women and the rest of the women are left chasing a dream. Now it’s up to Linq to be the next guy on their minds. The next cab off the rank so to speak, well as long as he doesn’t wear sandals, I mean they’re frowned upon here it seems, perhaps socks and sandals are ok?

I’ve had fools messaging women and I took control of their phones and lined up dates for them. What happened afterwards was totally their choice and yes they all failed but they got a foot in the door for the first date. Now I’m not offering my services to anyone here but Linq needs to up his game and where better than to get that intel than on a punting forum.

Linq could well become the forum’s “go you good thing” mascot, a bit like a well trained whippet and with enough positivity and forum instruction he can get where he needs to be.

We could place bets on him even!

[hornedbeast]

I asked a Chinaman. He thinks she love you long time