Quote Originally Posted by Digby View Post
The more I think about it it’s better to punt then go. There are so many woman available why get stuck with one? Sooner or later they start interfering with your lifestyle with subtle expectations or demands.
100% Digby .. after some 60 years I found The One , ticked all the boxes ... then when the *honeymoon* period was over (neither of us were married nor were we) , the relationship soured and I no longer had her on a pedestal .. everything seemed to be her way and I felt I was losing my freedom . Long story short , remained friend as I was indebted to her for the good times we had but didn*t want to dump her and went ballastic on punting to which I had only dabbled in before. At this age wasn*t prepared to sacrifice anything for someone else , might sound selfish but wanted what made me happy while I was still upright . . Feel so liberated and alive having sex whenever you want without ties and variety is the spice of life ! Even with regulars , it can be a bit mundane eventually and they lose their sex appeal .