Can a WL ever adjust to a normal life?

[machida1]

I came across this WL's private life after doing a bit of digging and I have always kept this to myself. But her situation is giving me a bit of anxiety just thinking about it. I found out she has a husband and daughter in her normal life. She claims she works at a legitmate company, her partner is doing above average income. She does PSE and threesomes quiet often. One of the best. But what gets me is how she can adjust and act normal at home every night she comes home to her family after doing like 10 clients a day. She lives here locally and has a few properties to her name also. She doesn't need the money but i think she is just a sex addict. Imagine your wife and mum is an active WL and you dont even know it.

[urmumsurdad]

I came across this WL's private life after doing a bit of digging and I have always kept this to myself. But her situation is giving me a bit of anxiety just thinking about it. I found out she has a husband and daughter in her normal life. She claims she works at a legitmate company, her partner is doing above average income. She does PSE and threesomes quiet often. One of the best. But what gets me is how she can adjust and act normal at home every night she comes home to her family after doing like 10 clients a day. She lives here locally and has a few properties to her name also. She doesn't need the money but i think she is just a sex addict. Imagine your wife and mum is an active WL and you dont even know it.

Yeah I know one similar to what you've said. If you look it at that way, it does feel a bit weird after the session hey? for me at least, i kind of feel bad afterwards lol

[rooter]

I think anyone who for any period of time in their life does something out of the ordinary -WL, backpacker, athlete, biker, musician, pimp, political activist, drifter, artist, poker player, magician, digital nomad whatever has issues going to a so called normal life after that. But better to have lived that unconventional life and then having issues adjusting than to never have lived that life at all ... enjoy!
Fuck the boring conventional bastards. Boring cunts

[11Bravo]

I came across this WL's private life after doing a bit of digging and I have always kept this to myself. But her situation is giving me a bit of anxiety just thinking about it. I found out she has a husband and daughter in her normal life. She claims she works at a legitmate company, her partner is doing above average income. She does PSE and threesomes quiet often. One of the best. But what gets me is how she can adjust and act normal at home every night she comes home to her family after doing like 10 clients a day. She lives here locally and has a few properties to her name also. She doesn't need the money but i think she is just a sex addict. Imagine your wife and mum is an active WL and you dont even know it.

Now WHY would you do some digging? How is her lifestyle ANY business of yours? Why are YOU anxious about HER life? HER FAMILY? What she tells them? How is that ANY of YOUR concern? How do you know she doesn't need the money? Did you run a property check on the properties? No mortgages. No liens? No loans against? Not bothered with the increase in interest rates? For me, it's NONEYA...

And before the boys pile on, how would you feel if a provider did a little digging into your life? Maybe she's curious? Morbid curiosity? Or... blackmail? Should she be anxious that you're cheating on your partner, that you're just popping out to run an errand, telling lies to your partner and offspring? Two sides, SAME coin.

[Zoobender]

Oh shit! I just realised you're Vincent!

And please stop having gay thoughts about me and wanting to be my "daddy".

Well I fucked your mum so that technically makes me her daddy and yours by association.

[Zoobender]

Now WHY would you do some digging? How is her lifestyle ANY business of yours? Why are YOU anxious about HER life? HER FAMILY? What she tells them? How is that ANY of YOUR concern? How do you know she doesn't need the money? Did you run a property check on the properties? No mortgages. No liens? No loans against? Not bothered with the increase in interest rates? For me, it's NONEYA...

And before the boys pile on, how would you feel if a provider did a little digging into your life? Maybe she's curious? Morbid curiosity? Or... blackmail? Should she be anxious that you're cheating on your partner, that you're just popping out to run an errand, telling lies to your partner and offspring? Two sides, SAME coin.

This is really creepy... Especially if it's creeping you out.

[Digby]

Burley, simply put, is any bait item thrown or deployed into the forum without validation in the hope of catching someone out.

[GoldfishMan]

I came across this WL's private life after doing a bit of digging and I have always kept this to myself. But her situation is giving me a bit of anxiety just thinking about it. I found out she has a husband and daughter in her normal life. She claims she works at a legitmate company, her partner is doing above average income. She does PSE and threesomes quiet often. One of the best. But what gets me is how she can adjust and act normal at home every night she comes home to her family after doing like 10 clients a day. She lives here locally and has a few properties to her name also. She doesn't need the money but i think she is just a sex addict. Imagine your wife and mum is an active WL and you dont even know it.

Well, I guess that answers the question on this thread once and for all.

[ColesBag]

I came across this WL's private life after doing a bit of digging and I have always kept this to myself. But her situation is giving me a bit of anxiety just thinking about it. I found out she has a husband and daughter in her normal life. She claims she works at a legitmate company, her partner is doing above average income. She does PSE and threesomes quiet often. One of the best. But what gets me is how she can adjust and act normal at home every night she comes home to her family after doing like 10 clients a day. She lives here locally and has a few properties to her name also. She doesn't need the money but i think she is just a sex addict. Imagine your wife and mum is an active WL and you dont even know it.

* Why are you digging into a W/L's private life? The idea is to fuck them then leave and believe me they want you to.
* A woman liking sex. How dare she.
* Few properties, sounds like one of the few W/L's that know how to manage their money. Good for her.

Point being, maybe the problem is you. Don't stalk, it's creepy. Enjoy your time with her then go back to your own life.

[Zoobender]

Lol, are you 12 years old Vincent?

You think your mum likes fucking 12 year olds Vinnie? This comment reveals alot about you.

[DanM]

While this thread seems to have slightly disintegrated, I do think the original question is interesting.

I have some personal experience with this after I dated an aussie WL for a little while, and I'm also friends with a few people who are/were active workers.

The girl I dated was never a 'normal person', she was a huge stoner and ADHD etc and would never have been able to hold down a 9-5. She was also a legit nympho who had fucked a lot of people before getting into the industry so it just worked for her. She (like most workers) wasnt a freak or weirdo, was just an average person mostly. Liked to do crafts and paint in her free time. Definitely some family issues and personality problems, but not that much more than a lot of civilian girls out there.

I know a couple of ex-workers and I will say it does seem a bit difficult to go from being in the industry to being completely outside of it. A lot of the girls have circumstances like chronic illness or drinking/weed (or others) problems and find it tough in other industries. And I know one girl who got outed at a normal job and had to quit.

But really, as a punter and a personal friend of workers, it seems pretty obvious that sex work is just a job. And like any job, there are some people who can only do that job and others who are just at the desk for a little while and never think about it again. Might be a bit harder to transition out of than most professions but not like, a herculean effort.

[hornybastard123]

Can a WL ever adjust to a normal life

What the fuck is a normal life?

- To be enslaved for 20-24 years (in the prime) of your life and bound to an educational system?
- To then work and sweat 12 hrs a day and live for 4 just to watch reality TV shows?
- To work tirelessly 6 days a week and only enjoy 1 day off?
- To work and slave your ass off all year only to get 2 weeks off in Bali?
- To work and slave all your life so you can pay off the mortgage, give your ungrateful kids an education, pay off all your debts, only to get divorced raped by your ex and fucked over by the legal system and the tax man?
- But luckily you saved enough money for retirement and can enjoy the remaining days of your life only to find your body is fucked, wrinkled, out of shape, and riddled with disease.
- Then after you die all the people you know will forget you or remember that you ever existed, memories will fade, people will move on with their normal lives, you will be forgotten and your name, savings, assets, and life achievements will fall into the abysses of the unknown.

Is that what you call a fucken normal life? A slave to a mortgage, a company, a job, an education, a career, a business, a sexless marriage, the tax man, a bank, the government, a religion, the system .....If that's a normal life, you can stick that up your fucken arse.

So whether you're a punter, a prostitute, a criminal, the king of England, a politician, a celebrity, or a simple tax paying law abiding citizen, we all live abnormal lives.

As for little adapter, he's getting some raw dog tonight and there's nothing abnormal in that!

Just bumping this thread to say: well fucking said

[awesomeguys]

It's tough, once you've tasted money, it's like a drug.

[Smolex]

While this thread seems to have slightly disintegrated, I do think the original question is interesting.

I have some personal experience with this after I dated an aussie WL for a little while, and I'm also friends with a few people who are/were active workers.

The girl I dated was never a 'normal person', she was a huge stoner and ADHD etc and would never have been able to hold down a 9-5. She was also a legit nympho who had fucked a lot of people before getting into the industry so it just worked for her. She (like most workers) wasnt a freak or weirdo, was just an average person mostly. Liked to do crafts and paint in her free time. Definitely some family issues and personality problems, but not that much more than a lot of civilian girls out there.

I know a couple of ex-workers and I will say it does seem a bit difficult to go from being in the industry to being completely outside of it. A lot of the girls have circumstances like chronic illness or drinking/weed (or others) problems and find it tough in other industries. And I know one girl who got outed at a normal job and had to quit.

But really, as a punter and a personal friend of workers, it seems pretty obvious that sex work is just a job. And like any job, there are some people who can only do that job and others who are just at the desk for a little while and never think about it again. Might be a bit harder to transition out of than most professions but not like, a herculean effort.

If anything most of the former WL I know have extremely ordinary lives by this point. Kids, husband, maybe went to study and got a job in that field. It was difficult for most of them to leave the industry even when they really wanted to just because it was at least initially a significant drop in income and with that a somewhat more humble quality of life, but if I were to ask any of them they'd all say they're living their best years so far right now.

[rooter]

We all want to be different, and we all want to be the same ...

[11Bravo]

- To be enslaved for 20-24 years (in the prime) of your life and bound to an educational system?
- To then work and sweat 12 hrs a day and live for 4 just to watch reality TV shows?
- To work tirelessly 6 days a week and only enjoy 1 day off?
- To work and slave your ass off all year only to get 2 weeks off in Bali?
- To work and slave all your life so you can pay off the mortgage, give your ungrateful kids an education, pay off all your debts, only to get divorced raped by your ex and fucked over by the legal system and the tax man?
- But luckily you saved enough money for retirement and can enjoy the remaining days of your life only to find your body is fucked, wrinkled, out of shape, and riddled with disease.
- Then after you die all the people you know will forget you or remember that you ever existed, memories will fade, people will move on with their normal lives, you will be forgotten and your name, savings, assets, and life achievements will fall into the abysses of the unknown.

If this is your life, you do know who to blame, right? (Hint: look in the mirror). Same answer as the SW who, when asked the price, says, Up to you.

If anything most of the former WL I know have extremely ordinary lives by this point. Kids, husband, maybe went to study and got a job in that field. It was difficult for most of them to leave the industry even when they really wanted to just because it was at least initially a significant drop in income and with that a somewhat more humble quality of life, but if I were to ask any of them they'd all say they're living their best years so far right now.

Same for those I still know after decade+. The others who dropped contacts over the years, I figure just moved on, got on with life, as do we all.

[Jack-Jack]

While this thread seems to have slightly disintegrated, I do think the original question is interesting.

I have some personal experience with this after I dated an aussie WL for a little while, and I'm also friends with a few people who are/were active workers.

The girl I dated was never a 'normal person', she was a huge stoner and ADHD etc and would never have been able to hold down a 9-5. She was also a legit nympho who had fucked a lot of people before getting into the industry so it just worked for her. She (like most workers) wasnt a freak or weirdo, was just an average person mostly. Liked to do crafts and paint in her free time. Definitely some family issues and personality problems, but not that much more than a lot of civilian girls out there.

I know a couple of ex-workers and I will say it does seem a bit difficult to go from being in the industry to being completely outside of it. A lot of the girls have circumstances like chronic illness or drinking/weed (or others) problems and find it tough in other industries. And I know one girl who got outed at a normal job and had to quit.

But really, as a punter and a personal friend of workers, it seems pretty obvious that sex work is just a job. And like any job, there are some people who can only do that job and others who are just at the desk for a little while and never think about it again. Might be a bit harder to transition out of than most professions but not like, a herculean effort.

very nice post and interesting insights

i know of and have seen ML and WL outside the shop and really respect those with goals on how much to earn and save to get out of the business

whether that be funding school and degree to work a normal job or getting some cash to open a shop and pursue a dream of theirs like a cafe or flower shop....

then there are those that like brag how much they spend their money on stuff that does nothing but harm you body and kinda in it for the job to make quick easy bucks and ur like cool u do u and best of luck ....

i agree and relate to this "Might be a bit harder to transition out of than most professions but not like, a herculean effort."

[Jack-Jack]

If anything most of the former WL I know have extremely ordinary lives by this point. Kids, husband, maybe went to study and got a job in that field. It was difficult for most of them to leave the industry even when they really wanted to just because it was at least initially a significant drop in income and with that a somewhat more humble quality of life, but if I were to ask any of them they'd all say they're living their best years so far right now.

nice message/insight and very heart warming to hear in this line of business and good on them

[Digby]

How many have a husband/partner that knows what they do?

[11Bravo]

How many have a husbsnd/partner that knows what they do?

Probably about the same ratio as punters' wives who know what their husbands do when they're out running an errand. Myself, I think "not my business".

Likewise, past history is just that, PAST history, for both parties. It's all about the future...