Learn to Read the Room

The providers are VERY astute, they have to be for their own physical safety. She has obviously read you (even though you claim you don't know yourself) and decided to do YOU a favor by asking you not to return. So why would you ever consider returning? To win her over? To change her mind? She's obviously more to you than just a provider, and you are just a puppy dog client to her.

For me, this lady isn't entitled but rather CLASS. If she wasn't, she would have milked you dry, and I'm not talking about your sack but your wallet. Little hints that if only you'd do more... Rather, she's accepted the loss of income from a nice safe guy out of respect for you. So return her respect by respecting her choice.

And for Christ's sake, show some class yourself. Just walk away from her AND the shop. Don't visit the shop to pull another WL from there in a FUTILE attempt to spite her. She doesn't care. And believe me, the girls talk, share intel, and bad mouthing her to another from the same shop will just make you look even more childish. Worst case, the one you pull might not have so much class.

Take my advice, stop punting and go get a REAL GF. Go have these feelings, these heartbreaks, these breakups in the real world. Having them in the punting world is just a waste of your time and emotions. When you punt, enjoy the lady, she's a person too. But remember, it's transactional, and she's WORKING.

You DON'T need to have the last word as the last words have already been spoken. A great friend once told me, "Taking the high road will always make YOU feel better in the long run." Wise words.