Should we see MLs regularly or not?

[harry444]

I divorced early in life. Had many girlfriends. Now I'm old and single and loving it. Marriage is an archaic tradition and more expensive than ML's. A HAB beats a 50 year old heffy anytime. Enjoy your freedom but don't get attached.

[Wineglass985]

I did the calculation. Even if I punt for 5 times a week until I am 70, it will cost much less than the potential damage from marrying a woman, which is actually the money I lost from the previous failed marriage. What a crazy world! And I have got to see pretty girls at 20s all the time. No need to stick to a single woman, no ethical burden at all as I am single. And I am able to do whatever I want in my daily life. I believe this is the reason why so many dudes remain single for the rest of their lives. Marriage is way too risky a business for men.

[Wineglass985]

I divorced early in life. Had many girlfriends. Now I'm old and single and loving it. Marriage is an archaic tradition and more expensive than ML's. A HAB beats a 50 year old heffy anytime. Enjoy your freedom but don't get attached.

That’s exactly what I am thinking right now! Thanks for sharing your experiences.

[Moonwalker]

In my case, mate, try ML with an unattractive face but a decent body and limited options.
Keep trying with her and show her affection—eventually, she’ll provide more service as you build a strong rapport. Somehow, you’ll reach your final goal.

In the meantime, never fall in love with her; let her fall in love with you. That’s the key. You might lose your appetite, but your only focus should be on sex.

Just have fun without thinking about the future.


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[Tales]

Some very good advice. The main thing to remember is- never go back to your previous life. Where you weren't getting looked after, providing for her needs and compromising on what was important for you. As with most divorces the ladies plan it in advance to maximise their return. I know I've been there. This is your time to shine, don't get hung up on a ML there's plenty around. This is your time to achieve your goals, it'll be a different life as to where you come from but embrace it.

[Wineglass985]

In my case, mate, try ML with an unattractive face but a decent body and limited options.
Keep trying with her and show her affection—eventually, she’ll provide more service as you build a strong rapport. Somehow, you’ll reach your final goal.

In the meantime, never fall in love with her; let her fall in love with you. That’s the key. You might lose your appetite, but your only focus should be on sex.

Just have fun without thinking about the future.


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Hi mate, thanks for your advice. Actually I don’t believe ML will ever fall in love with a punter. They are not normal women, sadly mostly damaged goods with no soul already .

[Scotty from Marketing]

Hi mate, thanks for your advice. Actually I don’t believe ML will ever fall in love with a punter. They are not normal women, sadly mostly damaged goods with no soul already .

As much as people would like to believe that, its simply not true.
They are human beings with feelings and emotions. And souls
Like most jobs, most transactions are non eventful.
They all have favourite customers or customers that ring their bell. Some more than others

There are numerous examples of:
Mls falling in love with punters and having money stolen or promises of visas expunged
Mls marrying or having relationships with customers out the shop with happily ever after. Or at least a visa lol.

But its a statistical anomaly. Its a job. A dirty job for most of them.
Make it pleasant, make it fun and just have some decency.
Don't be the guy that makes them cry at night and give them long term nightmares.

[Angkorwhere]

As much as people would like to believe that, its simply not true.
They are human beings with feelings and emotions. And souls
Like most jobs, most transactions are non eventful.
They all have favourite customers or customers that ring their bell. Some more than others

There are numerous examples of:
Mls falling in love with punters and having money stolen or promises of visas expunged
Mls marrying or having relationships with customers out the shop with happily ever after. Or at least a visa lol.

But its a statistical anomaly. Its a job. A dirty job for most of them.
Make it pleasant, make it fun and just have some decency.
Don't be the guy that makes them cry at night and give them long term nightmares.

This thread has been reminding me of a Dr Phil episode.. we probably all need a therapy session or two

Plenty of advice given for a newbie there Wineglass985, time to act smart

[Wineglass985]

As much as people would like to believe that, its simply not true.
They are human beings with feelings and emotions. And souls
Like most jobs, most transactions are non eventful.
They all have favourite customers or customers that ring their bell. Some more than others

There are numerous examples of:
Mls falling in love with punters and having money stolen or promises of visas expunged
Mls marrying or having relationships with customers out the shop with happily ever after. Or at least a visa lol.

But its a statistical anomaly. Its a job. A dirty job for most of them.
Make it pleasant, make it fun and just have some decency.
Don't be the guy that makes them cry at night and give them long term nightmares.

Thanks Scotty. Your comments brightened up my day. After being dumped by my favorite, I was really desperate. She knows I like her very much much and I was visiting her only for the past weeks. Yet she’s still so merciless to me, making me feel MLs having no soul. Yesterday I visited another regular of mine ( I cancelled my regular visits to her for the past few weeks to visit the girl who just dumped me). She gave me the best service I have ever enjoyed. She’s absolutely caring and heartwarming. She said she is not doing this to every of her customer. She makes believe that MLs did have a soul and some of them are really good in nature.

[Wineglass985]

Some very good advice. The main thing to remember is- never go back to your previous life. Where you weren't getting looked after, providing for her needs and compromising on what was important for you. As with most divorces the ladies plan it in advance to maximise their return. I know I've been there. This is your time to shine, don't get hung up on a ML there's plenty around. This is your time to achieve your goals, it'll be a different life as to where you come from but embrace it.

Your words”ladies plan in advance to maximise their return” this really struck me as I experienced the same, feeling like being set up when my ex filed for separation and divorce. What a sad reality. So now I start to enjoy life. Enjoy all the beauties for being a free and single man. No need to hide, no need to lie, freedom is so good.

[harry444]

Dear Wineglass
After all our advise, I fear you may be heading down the same path. You now appear to be besotted by a new girl, "she's absolutely caring and heatwarming......shes not doing this to everyone of her customers", etc, etc, etc, etc. Wake up!
Which again makes the cynical me think we are being baited. No disrespect WG.

[Wineglass985]

Dear Wineglass
After all our advise, I fear you may be heading down the same path. You now appear to be besotted by a new girl, "she's absolutely caring and heatwarming......shes not doing this to everyone of her customers", etc, etc, etc, etc. Wake up!

Hi mate, thanks for the warning. No worries. I am not attached to her in any shape or form. But her words are really nice ( won’t necessary to true though). She’s not a new girl either. I visited her a lot of times already before. She’s one of my regulars. I wrote this just to echo what Scotty has said “MLs are human beings, they have feelings too”， which I agree now.

[Wineglass985]

Dear Wineglass
After all our advise, I fear you may be heading down the same path. You now appear to be besotted by a new girl, "she's absolutely caring and heatwarming......shes not doing this to everyone of her customers", etc, etc, etc, etc. Wake up!
Which again makes the cynical me think we are being baited. No disrespect WG.

No baiting here mate. I am divorced like you do and your words are truly inspiring

[Up2me]

Hey Wineglass, of course you should treat them with the respect that you obviously do, but never lose sight of the FACT that they are not your girl, it's just your turn.

[jedibear]

Why do you blokes get attached? Go in, blow your load, get out. Simple as that

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[AUlysses]

. She said she is not doing this to every of her customer.

Yeah man, I bet she's not.

[Wineglass985]

Hey Wineglass, of course you should treat them with the respect that you obviously do, but never lose sight of the FACT that they are not your girl, it's just your turn.

Sure. I am just one of their customers. But need to be a good customer so that I don’t get rejected all the time.

[Ahamisch]

Thanks Scotty. Your comments brightened up my day. After being dumped by my favorite, I was really desperate. She knows I like her very much much and I was visiting her only for the past weeks. Yet she’s still so merciless to me, making me feel MLs having no soul. Yesterday I visited another regular of mine ( I cancelled my regular visits to her for the past few weeks to visit the girl who just dumped me). She gave me the best service I have ever enjoyed. She’s absolutely caring and heartwarming. She said she is not doing this to every of her customer. She makes believe that MLs did have a soul and some of them are really good in nature.

Is this your regular one at Touch? Wonder what is the service you received. It is good to hear you are getting OK again.

[JohnRoscoe]

As much as people would like to believe that, its simply not true.
They are human beings with feelings and emotions. And souls
Like most jobs, most transactions are non eventful.
They all have favourite customers or customers that ring their bell. Some more than others

There are numerous examples of:
Mls falling in love with punters and having money stolen or promises of visas expunged
Mls marrying or having relationships with customers out the shop with happily ever after. Or at least a visa lol.

But its a statistical anomaly. Its a job. A dirty job for most of them.
Make it pleasant, make it fun and just have some decency.
Don't be the guy that makes them cry at night and give them long term nightmares.

Well said Scotty

[Duco23]

Never read a thread that i related so much too, glad I'm not the only one.