Is there anybody who takes more care of her private parts than a sex worker? It’s their asset for making money. Based on my own experience with numerous MLs, they all have significant concerns about hygiene, much more than normal women. What’s the point of unfounded panic. There is risk for doing anything. Just enjoy the moment. I worked for 2 companies in the past 2 years. In each company, there are colleagues I personally knew died. One died from breast cancer. One died suddenly from heart attack. They both worked closely with me. The other guy I communicated every day just had brain cancer. A couple of weeks ago, a colleague collapsed in his seat in front of me. They were all very young. Just enjoy life. We are all survivors in some sense