Absolutely right. As a young bloke I always tried to have conversations with the working girl, treat her like a girlfriend. I even remember letting a few have a nap during the time I’d paid them. Nowadays I just visit brothels for a service, a quick grease and oil change. If you’re looking for a friend get into meetup.
And on the original post, quelle surprise - not! That’s exactly what I’d expect to read from a young working girl’s exchange.
Agree very much in general and I find some of the reviews, particularly a couple of 3some/4some ones that I've read quite delusional but highly entertaining " ... girl B was aching for my cock but I made her wait while I pleasured girl A first ..." etc.
As Linq alluded, online comments are skewed to negative though, girls having bitch sessions, trying to outdo each other, venting and feeding off each other after having to suffer through a session with a dirty fat moron or whatever.
Ways I've tried to tilt the odds for more authentic experiences are to book privates that have professional careers apart from escorting, they only escort part-time for limited time each week, see the same lady multiple times vs new girl each time, visit that time of month when they are most horny (need to know their cycle though), make sure I'm well-dressed neat and well-groomed, still joke and flirt around and do all the things I'd do with a normal girl that I wasn't paying, book 1 hour our minimum sessions. Obviously things to avoid would be ladies working 7 day shifts from morning to midnight etc.
Mind you, I also often rock up to a shop and see a girl when I'm suddenly horny and say want to exp. a thicc girl, a tiny girl, one with huge tits ... whatever is on my mind.
I've also had a couple of really great sessions at massage places where it's felt a lot more natural than brothels when I've asked for full-service, plus their pussies wouldn't be as sore/used so hopefully not putting on that numbing cream some dude mentioned.
Most these girls (If not all) hate what they do so clearly this hate is passed on to customers. You might be a favorite client but you are never seen as an ordinary individual to these girls.
Every girl is different. Some put on an act. But some are actually genuine.
Everyone has different experiences. From my experience, J Asahi is very genuine. Always tells me that she likes/loves me. I believe she's genuine about it. And her actions reflect it too...
I agree. I think this thread descended way too far into cynicism. I think it's healthy to be skeptical and not believe WL on face value, but it is definitely not always an act.
Yes, it is their job and they are there to make money. However, it is possible to sometimes have a good day at the office. I personally don't really care what a WL thinks of me, as I don't want to get attached, but if you want to be liked, you can do the following:
1. Make sure you are clean and well-groomed. Brush your teeth, cut your nails. Wash your hands thoroughly in the shower as the first thing you do.
2. Try not to be fat. Losing weight isn't actually that hard, it just takes discipline. Consume less calories than you burn, it's as simple as that. You don't need to look like Chris Hemsworth, but you can't look like Jack Black. You'll probably live longer, too.
3. Dress nicely. Your clothes should be laundered and should fit you. You don't need to go overboard though.
4. Be kind, generous, and listen.
5. Start gentle. While some girls out there like it rough, it's much more rare in shops, where a girl has to do it so many times in a week.
I am no longer young, but I think I am relatively handsome. I have had friendships with some WL in the past, ranging from casual pub meals after work, to weekend getaways (without charge). This illustrates that not all of them see customers in such a negative light.
Agree with this, was kind of saying the same in my post. I dated a WL for quite a few months (many years ago) after meeting her in a shop, she did modelling too, and she used to take me out and pay, even to hotels to fuck, she loved sex and was a lot of fun, we went on a couple of holidays, I met her mum even, her stepfather walked into her bedroom once just after we'd been fucking and I'm still lying there with a boner, he was more embarrassed than me![]()
Agree you don't need to look like Hemsworth either. Even if you are average but take some pride in your appearance, make a girl feel special, even a WL, make her laugh, flirt, be relaxed and fuck the right way and just don't think of her as a WL, you can sometimes have some pretty amazing experiences.
God damn some of these guys are delusional old donkeys thinking that saying they love you is true like the other 100 guys they said it to. I guess those girls in thailand marrying men older than their fathers truly love them and not for their money..
I think you may be right if you are talking about Koreans, Thai, Chinese etc, but there is a big difference between Japanese sex workers and other nationalities. Japanese prostitution has a long, deep-rooted history that goes back hundreds of years, even to the Edo period and beyond. They are absolutely pros, fully educated in this game. Study the history.
Next episode: SIMPS! This one’s for all the romance seekers out there. Hopefully, it won’t stop you from believing in love! Because love is absolutely real! Just not inside the brothel maybe.
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I have funny ones coming up next to lighten up the mood, or maybe something else, who knows, will keep this thread up to date!
I have limited time & content so I can't update this everyday. So maybe a in few days.
I will add these to the first page as well, stay tune!
Thank you for posting. This is absolutely fascinating. I wonder if the views differ depending on the WLs nationality.
On another note, although we all knew that girls climaxing and being horny for us claims in ARs is an exaggeration at best and possibly just delusion from punters. I was reading some ARs last night of girls legs shaking and so and so being horny for me and couldn’t help but laughing and thinking that it is madness. Some guy who goes hard on the girls, chocking and slapping saying that they enjoy. In saying that it may be true for some of the girls but I really doubt it.
This thread didn’t discourage me from punting, actually the opposite, it put it more into perspective.
I am one of those old fat guys. It's easy to be delusional that hour of time you get with these breathtakingly beautiful Asian working gals but at the end of the day it's still a money transaction. I had a bit of a reality check when I didn't like what I saw in the mirror and even caught the girl with a bit of a disgusted look on her face. I dont need validation from a 25 year old Japanese girl and I worked hard to get where I am in the field I work. Its just motivation I use now to return to the gym cause damn. Round is the shape I don't wanna be in anymore
The irony of this thread is that the girls comments, actually highlight how good the standard of girlfriend experience is in Sydney. Daty, DTK variety of positions. A real girl friend experience. This is possible to receive in Thailand and Philippines but it is not always the case in Asia. On a recent trip in Malaysia and Vietnam several girls were very open about your roll in the transaction.
Bare blowjob 2 minutes. Fuck hard 5 minutes and make you come. You leave now sir. Why are you still here after you’ve paid for an hour. Quiet bazaar the similarities in approach. Different countries, beautiful girls.
Believe me that amazing girlfriend experience in Sydney brothels is brilliant. (And you know the cost. The GFE in Thailand and the Philippines rarely equals the cost of the original transaction. )
Back to those Japanese girls and all working girls. Be kind be appreciative be friendly.
Some people find reluctant disgust of WL a turn on. Either way, we getting a bbbj