Ah, yes, those schemin', cheatin', lyin' inscrutable Orientals... totally devoid of Western morality... Those temples... all tourist traps... The Thai, Myanmar governments' dual prices systems, one for locals, one for farangs... such discrimination, ripping off those of the West...
Seems that, while some may have heard the names Confucius, the Buddha, they might not have read the books. Why bother? All that Western morality... Careful... woke alert, woke alert. Yea, but, perhaps if you ask the Native Americans, the Indigenous Australians, they might have a slight difference of opinion on Western morality, those ungrateful savages scorning the benefits of Western Civilization.
Like pmmeyourknee_ said, dishonesty can be found everywhere. It's the individual that matters.
Personally, I just follow the Golden Rule, found in many cultures, Western and Eastern.
But hey, for those discerning individuals, I'm willing to sell my rights to the North bound 3rd lane between 12:00-15:00 Harbor Bridge tolls for a cheap price.
Ethics and Morals is only the tip of the iceberg! The other 3 key ingredients missing from the mix include Values, Principles and Behaviours. All 5 form part of cultural and societal norms. These 5 ingredients not only apply to third world countries but also, to developed and prosperous ones.
So in the punting mix this is how the 5 work together for a WL/ML:
Morals - what the WL/ML believes deep down. She might think "I’ll do hand jobs and blow jobs, but I draw the line at kissing, rimming and FS".
Maybe she's fine with light spanking, but anal’s off the table. Morals are her personal boundaries and beliefs; her inner do's and don’ts, her line in the sand.
Ethics - the house/shop rules includes both written and unwritten.
No stealing other WL customers. Respect booking times, respect customer privacy, regular checkups for STI/STDs, no stealthing, no stealing from unattended wallets or blackmailing customers etc. Ethics is the professional code of conduct that keeps the whole joint from descending into an all in gangbang c/w bukkake.
Values - what the WL/ML prioritises in her job. Maybe she values validation or perhaps her health and personal safety; she might value money, tips, expensive gifts or romantic getaways with SDs. She might value punters that have good personal hyegene, wash their junk thoroughly, no BO, no halitosis, are respectful, don't haggle for discounts, don't push the sex boundaries, don't demand for freebies and no man handling in the room.
Principles - her core sex work philosophy. Treat every client the same, don't date customers, don't fall in love with punters, no raw dog, don't go to work when sick or with STD/STIs, no Indians, no Koreans, asians only. Principles are her non-negotiables, the stuff she holds firmly to.
Behaviours - what the WL/ML says but what she actually does behind closed doors. She says she values boundaries, but if she keeps giving GFE extras, raw dog, rim jobs her behaviours are not in alignment with her values and principles.
The same 5 concepts can equally be applied to punters.
Never "lend" money to any working girl that you patronize. Your only function to her is a source of money, and normally this function would require her to be fucked by you. Assuming she doesn't enjoy being fucked by you (let's be real, haha), once she can get your money without having to fuck you, what do you think will happen?
You can donate or give money if you want, but lending, advance payments, etc .... Basically expecting any sort of return "later" is foolish.
I’ve heard some whopper stories during sex worker dating and I’ve gone as far as checking some out and yes they do get themselves into precarious situations, now that I think of it two not one have told me of exceedingly large six figure debts. Of course there’s the host of smaller issues overseas that they happen to tell you about.
Let’s see, from just one WL, overseas expenses for her family…
I’ve paid for water filtration in the house. A flushable toilet system, UPS connected to a wifi modem with sim card backup so the family can always be contacted. Medical expenses, passports, new iPhone, new laptop, holidays, school tuition for her child who her mother cares for, $500A weekly sent OS for a year till I burnt the relationship, no doubt a lot of other things that I’ve forgotten but yes guys do get stitched up.
I gave all that freely and she cheated but then so do I so I’m not complaining, it was the cost of banging her. I’m not even stressed about it, it’s only because I was a control freak that I burnt the relationship and I’m putting my experiences online for you to read.
Roll forward and now nothing’s changed, no lessons were learnt and I still do the same because I can.
I see spending money on women as a transactional cost and some men have their hand in their pocket for their wife, the wife’s family, the girlfriend on the side, her family and the sex workers they punt and date plus their family(s)!
Now tell me, is your life as complicated as mine?
I don't see your life glamorous at all and your motivations of going to the next level of having relationship's with WLs. Each to their own though, you can do what you want.
I pay, have sex with hot WL's, then leave - I don't take the transaction further. I'm also glad I had proper relationships with girls in my 20's before marriage, your life experiences does shape the way you are...
wow wtfI think I may know who you talking about if she was pregnant and name starting with A. We used to hang out at her apartment for drinking. She was always chasing money and gifts like using herelf for that and everyone knew what she was. One of my friends fucked her regularly even in front of the kid sometimes and she even got him Tom Ford perfume, probably with your money lol. We was planning to do her together but she disappeared for awhile shortly after. This was a few years ago.
If same person she is perfect example of what Viet say con cave
When are some guys going to learn to not give & lend money to these WL's
Just pay, respect them, f*ck then leave
But theres alot of very Low-Value men who want to take it further & get into relationships with these Gold-Diggers.
If you're old, bald & fat. Then work on that.
I'd say get a hair transplant. Diet, go to the gym and lose weight if you're fat. And brush up your game and social skills so you can court normal civilian non-WL women.
Agree. My individual circumstances only, but I find punting expensive and can't understand how ppl would even loan money to these girls. They use fake names. Is that not a sign? Re hair transplant s, does anybody know if you can get them in Bali? Turkey too far for me....
On Temu you can get all sorts of wonderful things, false teeth, artificial limbs, toupees, pretty much anything and very very cheap, the teeth are starting at $2.50 !!!
The Temu toupee at $11.00 is great value so why go to Bali? With the money you save on airfare you could be the $60 dollar Temu man!
Do you honestly think any farang could be bothered with self improvement? Admit it, they’re a lost cause. They were stupid enough to let themselves go, so how are they going to be smart enough to better their situation?
All a farang thinks about is booze, cigarettes, food, rubbing his belly and when the urge takes him finding the cheapest punt. There is no focus on anything else except instant gratification.
You can get 1500 hair grafts (around 3000 hairs) for just under $5k, otherwise you can score fake hair sprays online for 50 bucks.
I don't know if you have ever been to Thailand. I went there few months ago. Every Farang there looks the same. Old, Bald and Fat. Beer belly's and just on the booze all day.
And they complain that Western women don't want them. So they have to go to some poor Third World country. Then complains they they get used as an ATM machine by Thai women. Come on, if they're not improving themselves. What do they expect...