not going to lie lie, $300-500 is a lot of money to spend, even fancy dinner doesn't cost that much. You can buy a new ipad for every session.
also be careful with extras. Extras add up quickly, do the math and you'll see yourself, it's +50-80% of the normal rate, which means if you normally spend $15k with extras it becomes $24k, crazy right? almost doubled. also health aspect you're playing with russian roulette. I'd rather keep it minimal and safe.
Yeah I've also done the buy something for someone else with that amount of I get the urge. I have sometimes bought the gift and then punted. Sometimes you just have to get it out of your system, or a bad run in like getting STI
i think its purposely not being near said venues. not taking vices that might weaken your resolve like alcohol. and giving your location at all times to your partner ... and keeping yourself busy af and accountable to others so you barely have time. i agree with above coming back here and looking again is weak and i should get busy again doing something else....
I bought a Meta Quest 3 and a Handy autostroker and I think it might get me to quit punting lol
By discontinuing my testosterone injections, that will kill off my sexual drive. Sorted!
Most important question ... WHY ??? Jokes aside , yes , thought I was addicted but then not so much addicted but more as a pastime like a hobby . Just back from Shanghai after spending a week there despite only having 2 sessions with Chinese friend , wasn*t too concerned whether sex occurred or not . Planning for Europe after next week for a month , already searched for possible bonks but not really worried if it happens or not . Cut it out completely ??? No way , plus hopefully once back with a tan and summer here will be going full throttle MLs and WLs
Delete all forms of temptation, and distract yourself with other activities/hobbies.
I don't plan to quit soon, but this theme seems to be consistent with all the approaches/solutions listed here.
If as a man you’ve done everything else in life then why not punt?
There are meds that slow down your testosterone levels. You won't feel keen anymore to put in the effort to drive out there especially in winter.
"Should i go punting??"
Before: Fuck yeah
After: I can't be fucked
Trying my hardest to stop cold turkey!
But it’s bloody hard. Especially when I keep interacting with this site, it doesn’t help lol.
I’ve been banned possibly 50 times by moderators who are power hungry. Their sphere of influence in their paltry lives is only here and I refuse to let them control me so I’ll keep coming back irrespective of how many times I’m banned.
Plus I date a lot of of the tarts I punt on purpose then dump them hopefully tainting or reinforcing their poor opinion of men lol.
Let’s see some other guy try and succeed after I’ve finished. Ever wonder why some don’t show up when rostered for work? I deliberately keep them in bed, double lol.
Call it a power trip or a battle of the wills but its all fun and games as far as I’m concerned.
I stopped punting for almost two months. It felt like recovering from an addiction. I still have urges to go out, DFK, and have rough sex, but now I'm always broke. To quit punting, I started sending all my money to my partner, leaving myself with just 250 a week, just enough for food, transport, and essentials. This has worked for me, though I'm not sure how long I can keep it up knowing that some Viet WL has returned to work. Wish me luck.
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Bro is a euphemism that relates to Asian guys on here, I’m not Asian. I don’t see or hear of any guys doing what I do. They struggle to pull a woman and then it’s all about holding onto her and pleasing her. Why? You’re better off collecting multiple women and then doing with them as you please. You can afford to let one go, as you have back up. Why be happy with one only? These tarts that you punt do exactly the same thing. They string multiple men along and what’s in it for the men? Empty pockets and a broken heart.
Exactly. What you do to them is the exact same thing they do with yourself and multiple other punters. Next time you punt, look at the WL's phone and see how many messages they get. On once occasion, a WL had her phone in the room and the amount of WeChat messages she received was insane. I can read Chinese and a bit of Japanese and can say all of them were punters.
One thing I can confirm is that the majority are in debt from those hostess bars of whatever its called. A regular J girl confirmed it with me. At first she was embarrassed but confirmed that's why she is doing the job. That was a few months ago. She has since returned to Japan after working in Sydney, Brisbane, Melbourne and Perth.