I hail from Wollongong and it's a barren desert in the south both punting scene and private relationships. I take every opportunity I get when I get a job in Sydney to punt. Happy punting boys!
Excitement and risk. Happily married and still get plenty at home but love getting a massage. Only go for 30 min rnts when I have the opportunity during work hours (driving around sydney all day helps a lot). Enjoy the relaxation of having a girl rub me down and then the added bonus at the end. I've tried WLs once or twice but it's not for me, prefer not having to work too hard and just laying backless risky STD wise staying hands only too
I hail from Wollongong and it's a barren desert in the south both punting scene and private relationships. I take every opportunity I get when I get a job in Sydney to punt. Happy punting boys!
I'm like a secret agent on a punt.... Watching all the angles, making sure I'm not deviating too much from my usual movements, having a ready-to-deploy story if I'm asked.... ensuring no electronic traces are left. Parking around the block and stealthing in, hopefully under an umbrella if its raining... I even punted last week - leaving my phone in my desk at work - I felt like I was back in 1998!
It's the ultimate escape.....
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“I've been thinking with my guts since I was fourteen years old, and frankly speaking, between you and me, I have come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains.”
― Nick Hornby, High Fidelity
Bcoz I ain't good looking, got no game and got no social skill
I use punting to de-stress and "reset" my mind. After I punt my head is finally clear of all the usual chatter and anxious thoughts building up during the week and I start to feel somewhat normal for a change.
It's the only thing I have found that works this well. And yes I am also a horny bastard who enjoys railing women.
I have found this site valuable because the last thing I want is to be ripped off or have a dud punt and have more mental stress to deal with.
so true JUST , once your in a relationship , yes you do become comfortable and don*t make the BIG effort as much . Sadly , yes it was the weight that she gained that killed it for me .. which was probably as much my fault as much as hers , paying for going on trips away , eating at restaurants , servo chockies .. just one big paid smorgasbord for her and irritation hit when leftover snacks I had in the fridge for later had been eaten during the night .
Yes , tend to agree .. getting a massage is a great feeling and yes a bit of (or a lot of ) tickle tackle goes a long way before the ending .. and in some ways for me better than penetrative sex. Was my de-stress / relief / escape whilst not in any relationship and during the initial and after some years of AIDS era. Punting only hit with a real passion with the internet after a pivotal loss and seeing some of the babes photos instead of lineups at brothels years previously
People change after years in a relationship, kids, stress etc. Sometimes people find they still love their partner , but no longer connect sexually or even do it at all anymore.
If that happens, you gotta make a decision. Are you willing to bury your drive until you go nuts? Or simply take a 30 minute trip every once in a while on the quiet.
At that point it's really a mental health service 🤣
I've forever found the act of just going (sneaking) into a brothel exciting n intoxicating just in itself. Never mind the actual act . Shutting out the real world for a while. Even in my single days I had no trouble going from date to "broth", sex or no sex. Even before.
In a loveless marriage and desire intimacy. I'm relatively new to punting but already I realise I'm probably not gonna find that via punting though.
Bored my whole life
1 sexless cold marriage
Many cold loveless shit WHITE GF
Bonking carelessly sometimes is great
The WL that travel here are all great... I've connected with several as mates... Saul Goodman
Punting is the best of hobbies.
1. The excitement of being a secret squirrel for a day; having your stand by story ready for the 'Oh, Gina said she saw you in Darlinghurst by the old Sony headquarters' comment. The frisson of looking surreptitiously over your shoulder as you dart into a shop door, the cleaning of your phone history. Fantastic.
2. A decent 45 min gym workout, keeping your rhythmn up and holding 45 kilos of PYT up against a wall for minutes on end.
3. Keeping your chat skills up to speed.
4. The dopamine rush of finding an amazing new girl and rogering a hottie you'd never have attracted in your best days.
5. Healthier than cocaine, cheaper than a boat.
I started punting by accident 20 something years ago after doing the city to surf and going for, i thought, a legit massage later that day. A beautiful Thai girl gave me a great massage and a BBBJ while shoving her finger up my ass. Never looked back really.
There are a couple of reasons I punt. First probably being I get to fuck girls that would otherwise be out of my league and try things out to work through any kinks I like the look of.
Second big reason is I’m not the most social person and I really struggle with the small talk bullshit that is most people hanging out. Having worked in Hospo for a long time I hate bars and I can’t stand gyms with the preening (first time in a gym had some muscle bros in spandex shouting out “come on baby give me one more!” To each other and I had to leave).
Also have a child with my ex that we co-parent and most women I’ve seen since being single haven’t been able to deal with the fact that my child comes first. They all say they love what a great father I am until they actually realise what that means.
It’s convenient, it puts a smile on your face and you leave feeling radiant. Plus there’s a lot of fond memories to remember.
For those who have done most things in life and are still busy, allocating a set period of time for sexual pleasure is logical.
Yes I date some but isn’t it better to have sex first and a relationship second? It’s no use dating a woman and finding out later the sex is bland, that she doesn’t perform or you don’t hit it off in bed and let’s face it, if you are a punter with experience you get better with said experience, yes?
So punting is a way of maintaining a certain level of sexual performance.