What if the shoe is on the other foot? [your wife/partner is cheating]

[andrewv]

Many punters here are married or in long term relationships. By definition they’re all “cheating” on their wives and partners.

Think seriously for a moment, how would you feel and what would you do if you discovered that she is cheating on you?!

[hornedbeast]

Fuck whores more intense! And often!

[justincase]

I had a married woman who left her husband go back to her husband and even continue to see me and yes it was upsetting as she was spending the money I gave her on him. I mean why should I support her loser husband?

He is a lazy bum with no job and no future but she had a kid to him and that was his hold on her.

She eventually found out he’s still cheating on her and she finally left him for good then reconnected with me out of the blue years later but now she’s extra fat from taking antidepressants and even though she’s hitting the gym hard I’ve now seen her as a fatty and any sexual appeal is long gone.

I knew the only reason she contacted me was for money and I didn’t offer any as I’m not into sugaring unless they’re attractive.

[bummer]

I had a married woman who left her husband go back to her husband and even continue to see me and yes it was upsetting as she was spending the money I gave her on him. I mean why should I support her loser husband?

He is a lazy bum with no job and no future but she had a kid to him and that was his hold on her.

She eventually found out he’s still cheating on her and she finally left him for good then reconnected with me out of the blue years later but now she’s extra fat from taking antidepressants and even though she’s hitting the gym hard I’ve now seen her as a fatty and any sexual appeal is long gone.

I knew the only reason she contacted me was for money and I didn’t offer any as I’m not into sugaring unless they’re attractive.

Funny, I still ocassionally see one particular lady, who had her husband in Jail and need the extra cash, so while the kids were in School.
Her husband got out and it stopped. Seems he is inside again as she contacted me to see her again.
She only saw 4 guys and we know each other. Generally bb and occasionally it be a gb.
a few times one her mates would be there for a gb as well.

Yep, all for money but her mate was a freebie.

[justincase]

Interesting, I know one who was in a very similar situation and I’d thought about going further than just punting but chose not to because they had a family and I didn’t want to the one who broke that up. Besides I’m never a long term partner as I have no need to be.

[asnabc]

Cheating is not just about sex. Many years back, I've found out about my wife who works part time getting too close to a work college, not physically but emotionally. Found out there is a term for this type of relationship defined as an "emotional affair".

Hurt me real bad but I'd realise its probably karma from all my casual punting in the past decade or so. If I hadn't confronted and sorted things out, the situation may have lead to physical cheating.

[andrewv]

Cheating is not just about sex. Many years back, I've found out about my wife who works part time getting too close to a work college, not physically but emotionally. Found out there is a term for this type of relationship defined as an "emotional affair".

Hurt me real bad but I'd realise its probably karma from all my casual punting in the past decade or so. If I hadn't confronted and sorted things out, the situation may have lead to physical cheating.

It sounds that you managed to avoid divorce. Very rare.

[asnabc]

It sounds that you managed to avoid divorce. Very rare.

There were assets and kids involved. Add things up, it wouldn't have been worth separating in the long term. Shes never known that I had punted. I'm sure her family has hired a private detective to check on me occasionally before. I now punt very cautiously and I'm sure others in a similar situation would too.

[Reaper6]

Are you in a married or long term relationship? If so curious to know your answer as well.

You aren't wrong , by definition it is cheating in the most literal sense.

Everyone's situation varies though. For some they love their partner but the sex doesn't exist or is too vanilla , for others it's straight up too expensive or complicated to divorce (family, kids , assets, businesses etc) so they branch out.

[Vader]

There were assets and kids involved. Add things up, it wouldn't have been worth separating in the long term. Shes never known that I had punted. I'm sure her family has hired a private detective to check on me occasionally before. I now punt very cautiously and I'm sure others in a similar situation would too.

If you punt your partner probably knows. Also a high percentage of female partners stray as well. Kind of evens thing out.