The Real Issues After Dating a Massage Girl

[Amazoneddy]

Interesting post.
How long can mls do this work?
At some stage they cannot handle it any longer, the money isn’t worth it or they just want to move on and have a normal life.
Then what? The money they earn doing this isn’t available out there for a large percentage. Best to grab a branch before falling to the ground eh?

Thanks GBR and all the others who replied to my post. I thought there could be some very negative replies I’ve been pleased by the respect and caution most guys have shown. It’s new territory for me too. Yes she is a woman with normal wants and needs and yes, I have been jealous some days, especially if ML has had 2-3 FS on that shift. We talk about it quite a lot and yes some days she’s too tired for more action. Sometimes I see other MLs for a change. ML is ok with that, since she sees so many guys. 5-7 on a usual day. Yes the money is good, but that’s her choice when to move on. Happy to answer any questions since the tone of all posts has been curious and kind.

[Gtlyer]

Thanks GBR and all the others who replied to my post. I thought there could be some very negative replies I’ve been pleased by the respect and caution most guys have shown. It’s new territory for me too. Yes she is a woman with normal wants and needs and yes, I have been jealous some days, especially if ML has had 2-3 FS on that shift. We talk about it quite a lot and yes some days she’s too tired for more action. Sometimes I see other MLs for a change. ML is ok with that, since she sees so many guys. 5-7 on a usual day. Yes the money is good, but that’s her choice when to move on. Happy to answer any questions since the tone of all posts has been curious and kind.

Interesting story! So you two still are living together while both of you keep doing what you used to do. One keeps being pounded by others and one keeps pounding others. You must have amazing sex together, right? Otherwise, I can’t imagine how strong a mind can be to maintain a relationship like this.

[A Nice Guy]

First, maybe make sure you can actually afford it.

Second, these kinds of relationships rarely last — if you're too possessive, she’ll just see you as someone interfering with her income.

Unless your money or emotional support makes it worth her time, don't expect too much.

Never a truer word spoken, you may be the nicest of guys but it counts for nothing if you don't have the financial means to support the lifestyle she has become accustomed to.

Enjoy the moment for what it's worth as it's unlikely to last and end in heartbreak.

[CumShot]

Thanks GBR and all the others who replied to my post. I thought there could be some very negative replies I’ve been pleased by the respect and caution most guys have shown. It’s new territory for me too. Yes she is a woman with normal wants and needs and yes, I have been jealous some days, especially if ML has had 2-3 FS on that shift. We talk about it quite a lot and yes some days she’s too tired for more action. Sometimes I see other MLs for a change. ML is ok with that, since she sees so many guys. 5-7 on a usual day. Yes the money is good, but that’s her choice when to move on. Happy to answer any questions since the tone of all posts has been curious and kind.

Great, so you can both 'tolerate' the current situation. Where does it lead? What is the future relationship? What common interests do you have (other than massage shops)? How closely are you and her family values aligned?

Apart from the 'success' of dating a massage girl why are you in the arrangement? Are you a visa ticket?

[Herpetology]

I owned a Massage Shop for 3 years


I sold my Massage Shop May 2025 to relocate February 2026

I Dated a few ML

I still hang out with 4 ML now

They are fine

I lived with a mature ML for 8 months 2024 a Taiwanese

I have a younger Taiwanese ML living in my spare room now


I mainly like Thai girls, and I know if you treat them well, they will look after you

I do not have a problem with dating ML

[RLC]

I have dated massage ladies over the years. The following is based on my experiences:
1) They are in debt for a range of reasons but the common element is they have been scammed/cheated out of money and now have to repay
2) They have all tried other lines of work but decided it was too much effort and so chose to do massage
3) They all want to stay in Australia
4) All of them had children back in their home country
5) 4 of them were married to some dude who they said was madly in love with them but once the visa kicks in for them to stay intend to leave the guy the next day. One girl said she told the guy he was too big for her so just gives him a hj while she sucks and f@cks across Brisbane. To ensure she has only limited contact with him she picks shops away from where he lives and stays at the shop overnight as much as possible.
6) All are insanely insecure. Last one, she asked me to help one of the other MLÂ’s with some advice. I did and she flew into a fit of fury because I was apparently too attentive to her friend another time on which I ended it, she recommended one of her colleagues while she was away because I had genuine soreness. The massage hit the spot, and because I tipped her well for a good job she declared it was proof I was in love with the other woman.
7) They all wanted babies- pity I have had a vasectomy that was cleared and in over a decade no pregnancy scares.
8) They all after a month or so begin the emotional control and shaming stuff to try and manipulate you.

This is just my experience and of course is not representative necessarily of all MLÂ’s

[VFlowers]

I have dated massage ladies over the years. The following is based on my experiences:
1) They are in debt for a range of reasons but the common element is they have been scammed/cheated out of money and now have to repay
2) They have all tried other lines of work but decided it was too much effort and so chose to do massage
3) They all want to stay in Australia
4) All of them had children back in their home country
5) 4 of them were married to some dude who they said was madly in love with them but once the visa kicks in for them to stay intend to leave the guy the next day. One girl said she told the guy he was too big for her so just gives him a hj while she sucks and f@cks across Brisbane. To ensure she has only limited contact with him she picks shops away from where he lives and stays at the shop overnight as much as possible.
6) All are insanely insecure. Last one, she asked me to help one of the other MLÂ’s with some advice. I did and she flew into a fit of fury because I was apparently too attentive to her friend another time on which I ended it, she recommended one of her colleagues while she was away because I had genuine soreness. The massage hit the spot, and because I tipped her well for a good job she declared it was proof I was in love with the other woman.
7) They all wanted babies- pity I have had a vasectomy that was cleared and in over a decade no pregnancy scares.
8) They all after a month or so begin the emotional control and shaming stuff to try and manipulate you.

This is just my experience and of course is not representative necessarily of all MLÂ’s

I might be wrong, but that sounds like you had your experiences mostly with the south-east Asian ML variety.

[harry444]

I've had a couple of ML GF's. Both a bit "strange". eg, texting while having sex.

[RLC]

I might be wrong, but that sounds like you had your experiences mostly with the south-east Asian ML variety.

You are 100% correct. 5 Chinese and 1 Korean.

I did feel sorry for one of the guys who had married one of the Chinese ML I was seeing. There was multiple occasions I had just blown a load into his Mrs at the shop and when I left I would see him sitting in his car waiting for her. One time he was standing just up from the shop waiting for her as I walked out having just cum in her mouth. We locked eyes as I walked past. I was driving off when I saw her come out, plant a deep kiss on him then skip off with him. She said he believed her when she said she offered no extras as he was naive and stupid and this allowed her to keep most of the money as he thought she was earning very little. Needless to say when she started bs with me it ended fast.

[Gentlemanscarfacethird]

Yes. RLC they prey on naïveté.

I’ve had a few confide in me. They like to unload their burdens if your a listener.

Lots seem to have kids, partners, debts or a wild history. Others seem nice and genuine… but who knows. I think best to err on the side of caution and keep them at an entertaining arms length.

[RLC]

Yes. RLC they prey on naïveté.

I’ve had a few confide in me. They like to unload their burdens if your a listener.

Lots seem to have kids, partners, debts or a wild history. Others seem nice and genuine… but who knows. I think best to err on the side of caution and keep them at an entertaining arms length.

You are right about arms length. I made the mistake with the last one of half believing she was genuine but bits of her story slowly unwound, parts she didn’t realise I had already worked out. Let her get a little too close in hindsight.

[Holdan427]

I married a ML a number of years ago helped her with PR. We agreed that after we were married she would not provide FS. However, some time after marriage, I discovered she was still doing FS so I told her to leave. She then tried to extort $200k from me> Took her to court - the judge was very scathing but didn't depart her FFS.

So not learning from my first mistake, I started going out with another asian ML. However this one worked in a few shopping centre shops and so I thought all was good. Although she was often cagey about telling me exactly what days she worked at which shops. Until I discovered she was working a few days a week at a well known RnT shop in CBD. So trust blown and relationship ended.

[VFlowers]

You are 100% correct. 5 Chinese and 1 Korean.

I did feel sorry for one of the guys who had married one of the Chinese ML I was seeing. There was multiple occasions I had just blown a load into his Mrs at the shop and when I left I would see him sitting in his car waiting for her. One time he was standing just up from the shop waiting for her as I walked out having just cum in her mouth. We locked eyes as I walked past. I was driving off when I saw her come out, plant a deep kiss on him then skip off with him. She said he believed her when she said she offered no extras as he was naive and stupid and this allowed her to keep most of the money as he thought she was earning very little. Needless to say when she started bs with me it ended fast.

No, LOL, I am actually 100% wrong. SE Asia doesn't include China and Korea, that's East Asia. Was thinking more Thailand, Philippines etc. I'm really surprised to read that 5 of them were Chinese.

[RLC]

No, LOL, I am actually 100% wrong. SE Asia doesn't include China and Korea, that's East Asia. Was thinking more Thailand, Philippines etc. I'm really surprised to read that 5 of them were Chinese.

Interesting as the Chinese all played the same/similar game to what I have read of other groups so just threw them in there with the rest.

[half]

Maybe I'm naive but I would have assumed most MLs dont date their clients but this thread implies it happens often. I guess they see a guy with money to burn and go for him when he expresses interest?

[RLC]

Maybe I'm naive but I would have assumed most MLs dont date their clients but this thread implies it happens often. I guess they see a guy with money to burn and go for him when he expresses interest?

I have visited shops over the last 2 decades at least 4-500 times I would guess and it’s happened about 6 times for me.

[Up2me]

Unless you are open minded enough to be ok with the girl servicing other guys (because 9 out of 10 will), then just remember, she's not really your GF, it's just your turn.

[APL]

Unless you are open minded enough to be ok with the girl servicing other guys (because 9 out of 10 will), then just remember, she's not really your GF, it's just your turn.

Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me

[CumShot]

I’ve had a few confide in me. They like to unload their burdens if your a listener.

Lots seem to have kids, partners, debts or a wild history. Others seem nice and genuine… but who knows. I think best to err on the side of caution and keep them at an entertaining arms length.

I think could also apply for the massage girls to remember also. Us punters have our baggage and secrets also.

[Fitch]

I live with a girl reviewed in these pages. It’s fantastic seeing here everyday. In the shower, in bed. Yes guys pay to see her. I know what she does with cocks. At times I get jealous about full service customers. But it’s just a money transaction. I see the girl over dinner, hear her thoughts and dreams. I met her as a customer. I wanted more. She tells me what happens, so I trust her. Some days I get stressed about the sex. But I see her undress at home. Go out with her. The sex is great.

This is cope level 10