Originally Posted by AHLUNGOR
I'm in exactly the same boat as yourself AHL. After a few skaty marital years we finally sorted ourselves out and couldn't be more happier with our relationship. Last year I went through a very hard time and my wife was there for me every step of the way. That's why I even feel like more of a cunt for letting my smaller head rule.
And ALH, IM glad to hear its "getting harder and harder" for you as you age. Keep up the good work buddy
Legitimately curious - what tipped your Mrs off and made her start wondering about what you're doing ? Was there hints or did you almost get caught ?
I'd sign that deal yesterday.+1.... At this stage in my rel'ship, I'd happily adopt the 'don't ask, don't tell' mantra and live and let live....
Fuck me.... damn phones! My wife can't see my phone location, she requested it once, and I said yep, but didn't actually activate it - I don't believe she is sus of anything TBH - she hasn't brought it up again.... My phone is almost always on silent due to work, so I generally don't have to come up with excuses as to why I haven't answered, but she hardly calls anyway!
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“I've been thinking with my guts since I was fourteen years old, and frankly speaking, between you and me, I have come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains.”
― Nick Hornby, High Fidelity
Just take a photo of your office and use it as the background on your FaceTime app. Fight fire with fire, bro. Gotta use technology to beat technology, lolll...
High fiving you virtually from here...
Except for the part of having mistress, although not yet...
Been at the top of my career where women see me differently in the office...
gosh my wife was right when men made tons of money, women would tend to get closer whatever dumb thing i said wont matter to them...
It feels so hard to resist as they kept asking me question as im one of the one who know most things and then they slipped in some casual flirt to test the water....
Totally agree. Went down the affair path a while ago and it was a disaster. Drastic measures required to end it.
Punting is a much smarter option to preserve your home life. Just be have to be careful in a number of ways.
The answer to the 'Why?' question..... I think mine just comes under the tired old 'mid-life crisis' heading! Although I've punted on and off since I was 18! Maybe I'm just a perv?
Ian Moss says it all - "And the money I saved won't buy my youth again"
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“I've been thinking with my guts since I was fourteen years old, and frankly speaking, between you and me, I have come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains.”
― Nick Hornby, High Fidelity
Wife basically stopped having sex 4 years ago.
I pushed for it, asked for it, told her to go to therapy, see a doctor etc.
She basically did nothing, and showed no sexual interest what so ever
So be it, I now go maybe once a month to a brothel. Good part I suppose is that I don't need to worry about bringing anything home as we're never intimate to share it.
Better part is instead of fucking a 36 year old, I now fuck 20 year olds, and instead of lame starfish sex, I sometimes get some real lively women.
Yep. Any port in a storm.
Some of these 20 year olds aren't 'any port' material....
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“I've been thinking with my guts since I was fourteen years old, and frankly speaking, between you and me, I have come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains.”
― Nick Hornby, High Fidelity
Hey AHLUNGOR to get around the face time check ins spend a bit of cash on a gym membership and register in some one hour classes. You can never turn up if you wish. Classes go as long as a punt so now you have an alibi lined up if you get caught out and need to think fast.
Yes see your point. "Garden Of Eden" might be more appropriate.Some of these 20 year olds aren't 'any port' material....
Damn she's only 36 and dried up?
I fucked a 40 year old married milf on the gold coast who was the wettest woman I've ever been with.
Crazy how life works out.
Enjoy the 20 year Olds brother!
Celibacy and monogamy is the most fucked up things that culture has imposed on us. Punt when you can, life is too short to be unhappy.
It is a lot of crap about women not wanting sex. They are the same as men, they want closeness, sex and not boredom. If you are screwing around then you can bet they are as well.
Legit not all women. Some legitimately loose interest I've seen it and I'm living it. Sometimes it's hormonal reasons sometimes it's depression or both but it does happen. It's dead set the only reason I know about this website , and I can guarantee she ain't stepping out because she's never not home..so much so it makes it real difficult for me to do anything.
When you put them together it's down right inhumane torture. Throw in a high sex drive on your part ? Now it's the Gods straight up laughing at you.
That last line is basically the conclusion I came to. Though I'll admit nothing feels worse than stepping out, staining your sense of integrity , and the punt is absolute ratshit. Feels like selling your soul for a slice of mouldy bread.
Plenty of aphrodisiacs for women and supplements/foods to boost certain hormones. Especially if she's only 36. I'm 38 gym junkie and usually horny. Is she VERY docile and never exercises. Being sedentary can destroy SO many things in the body like libido etc.
I suppose the problem is because she has a low drive, she doesn't really have the will to change any of it.
She is very sedentary. Office worker type.
Still got a good body though. Shame it will probably fall apart over the next decade or so without me being able to enjoy it.
I've talked about supplements n shit. The problem was last time we really tried to talk about it, she got a bit angry, and I could feel her no longer really willing to discuss.
At that point I just said to myself fuck it, I'm going to punt as I want with 0 guilt, I've tried everything I can.
I think I'd still prefer a solid sex life with the wife over punting but I can see the benefits of punting anyway.
What I really miss is the contextual fucking, like Netflix and chill or pizza and a date type fucking rather than the more clinical brothel type stuff.
I swear you could make a LOT of money trying to open up a sort of Pattaya style bar in Sydney where a guy could go few a few hours, have drinks, chill talk, eat and take one of the girls you get along with upstairs for a fuck/cuddle.
I mean that's all a guy really needs in life right? Food, entertainment and sex.
If it could be priced at like $600 for a.3 hour or so experience from 6pm to 9pm that you could disguise as a work dinner.
Probably consume the entire brothel market in Sydney.
That's not true man. I suspected she was screwing around so much, but no.
Snooped phones, computers, everything. She just doesn't do anything sexy.
She's not asexual or something because when we met we fucked like jackrabbits every time.
It's just after 2-3 years/marriage she just started saying it's painful etc. then basically just stopped everything... The ole headache every night.
I was understanding at first and then after like a year of that, I started pushing her to see a doc or a therapist or something which she didn't want to do.
Then she basically showed no interest in even talking about it.
Yeah I guessed as much. If she did do physical activity regularly then it would release dopamine and change brain chemistry which increases sex drive and that may work. But seeing she doesn't want to change then I have no answers. I feel for you man. Doesn't she want to satisfy her husband at all? Like she doesn't care AT ALL. Does she just assume you masturbate or does she pretend sex doesn't exist anymore and expect you to be a eunuch?
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