I have been dating a girl I met in a massage shop for a few months now. She is very beautiful in terms of look and body. Random people on the street will sometimes comment when we go out that I’m a such lucky man to have such a stunning girlfriend. She has a good personality too, used to like party and club but is now willing to stay at home with me.
Things are getting a bit serious after months and she is willing to settle down. I’m on the other side not sure… at the end of the day we have differences in many ways.
Anyone has any positive experience with similar situation? I know everyone is different but just wanted to hear any real life case.
Never had a serious one ,went out for few months with a Japanese girl outside the bookings. Told her upfront I am fuckin broke and won't help her with any visa/PR stuff. She was ok with it as she did not wanted to stay here.
I guess tell her how broke you are and you can't help her with any visa situation she might have. You will see the true colours.
That’s a good approach. Always best to be up front. So often the girls are lonely and bored. They appreciate the friendship as much as anything.Originally Posted by Jacocoo
We can share similar experiences, but treat them with caution. Some of us have had positive ones, others will say things like “never fall in love with an ML/WL”. The negative experiences might discourage you to pursue what would actually be a good relationship.
YouÂ’ve probably already done this, but perhaps ask yourself why you are having doubts about settling down with her. Is it because she is an ML? Is it because you want to leave your options open and play the field/continue seeing other MLs? What are the differences between you? And more importantly, are any of those differences deal breakers for you or her?
Good luck.
Her history will always be an issue at the back of your mind. The only women that end up in successful long term relationships are the ones who close off the past and start relationships with men who they never tell about what they did.
This is not an issue of her "willing to settle down". Keep in mind that women often know that a marriage or long term relationship will come to an end years later. It is men who tend to be trusting and do not think ahead.
---No matter how you look at it, punting is a lot cheaper than divorce.---
Chad Thundercock is gonna be all over this.
I think it will also go the other way around as well, if you met at a massage shop. The ML is going to be suspicious of you going to get a HE if you are late at work or smells different even after she has finished up at the shop.
I know someone who went out with a ML and she forbid him from getting a massage with a Happy Ending even though she still works at a shop. Her rationale is that its a job for her, and its not a job for him.
I don't know, but if my missus is getting naked and getting someone off 8 times a day and thinks its ok. then I don't see the problem with him getting a happy ending once a while by another girl...
This is the kind of mess up thinking you have to consider. also doesn't help when you read their good review here. hahaha.
Best of luck.
Yep... very true.
Your comment "if my missus is getting naked and getting someone off 8 times a day" is graphic....
If a man gets home to his partner and hopes she has washed her hands after 8 different men ejaculated on them earlier that date... I would find this too gross, and it would be time to find another woman who earns much more doing a job that does not involve men blowing off their rocks on her.
---No matter how you look at it, punting is a lot cheaper than divorce
The questions I'd ask are "Why is she here?" "What is the money for?"
You get those answered, and all the bs about her past history, just like your past history, is immaterial. It's what's in the future that counts.
And know it's not like the "west". Here, you leave home, you leave home. Ma & Pa take care of themselves; they're headed for the old folks home. Asian style - your home will have a good size room with full bath for them, for visits or permanent residence. They're family. Only question is, will you ever be seen as such or simply as an ATM.
Hey brother, you cannot attract and court a normal civilian girl? I know most punters are ugly. But are you really that old, fat, ugly and undesirable in real life that you have to resort to dating a sex worker?
These girls are low hanging fruit. Literally any man on the street who has $200-$300 in his pockets has access to your "girlfriends" pussy.
Only a very Low-Value man would date a sex worker/ML/WL/Hooker/Prostitute.
Oh this ‘ole chestnut again..!
Don’t fucking do it man. But I think you’ve already come to that conclusion.
If you feel she’d need counselling afterwards, PM me her name and shop. Happy to help out. Least i can do. Got ya back bro. One Love.
Keep doing your thing BambaClot. Love it. Have you thought about a podcast?
Does she do P3 and are you cool with that?
By settle down you mean she will quit working?
A sex doll would be better because at least you know you are the only that's been with it. Imagine walking around with a prostitute on the streets while old guys are eyeing her not because she is attractive but its cause they had sex with her before. Or even worse that guy inviting people to his wedding and her telling him that she had sex with his friends, uncles or nephews sitting in the corner...
ChadTC loves these kinds of threads and can't help himself....straight in like a fucken blowfly to a warm turd.
But on the flip side, only a very low value woman would fall for a bloke who pays for sex, who cheats on his missus, lies about his infidelities, and sneaks around hiding his sexual proclivities. So really, the WL and the punter are made for each other. Which begs the question: why aren’t there more WL-punter relationships?
Hidden gems, hidden relationships..... what's fucken next!
The reasons women go into prostitution are many and varied. And it takes all sorts. Problem is, I reckon, the preconceived notions people have of working girls from popular stereotypes. Yeah, some of the girls are gold diggers, some are victims of sexual abuse, some are coerced, and lots doing it just as an easy way to make quick money. I’ve made some great friends over my years of punting with women with hearts of gold. I wouldn’t prejudge a woman just because she has worked in a brothel. If the two of you communicate and find you care for each other then the relationship is just as likely to work out as any other.
Well said. I agree.
If you are, don't tell anyone on this forum.
Last thing you want to do is doxx your missus around a bunch of blokes looking for the cheapest prices and access to BBFS.
The last part especially is what people need to understand. Heaps of people are delusional and I find it funny how alot of guys think they actually care about them when in reality they even said its embarrassing to walk outside with old or gross guys so why do alot of them keep asking to meet outside all the time when they are just acting. Especially alot of japanese sex workers called these guys losers and pathetic thinking their smiles are real and they have to pretend they care just to waste time.
https://youtu.be/G4JYFkvR0XM?si=uL4ZkBmYTCV6gkzb
Very well said.
I'll politely disagree on the "as an easy way to make quick money", because it's a bitter way, degrading, not easy at all. Easy? Go be an expat, away from home, family, friends... But like you say, I've made some great friends, some of the nicest women. If it was me, I'd be so bitter, seething... but any number I've met... "that's life, supporting my family, doing what I have to do." I'd say too many boys here would simply run down to CentreLink, where's my money, where's my support? Whine, whine, whine. My view, it's who you want in the trenches with you when the shit hits the fan, because they're not cutting and running, they've got your back. You don't know providers like that? Your loss. If nothing else, has taught me to be humble, to appreciate what I've got, and the breaks I've had. Thank God my 1st world bit was set when I was born; others not so lucky.
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