
I'm fairly certain that 1-3 is quite common; I imagine most people have done it, myself included. I also only did this with MLs, never WLs.
Controversial and aggressive as it may be, the OP's post touches on an important point about maintaining a degree of healthy cynicism and a clear-eyed view when it comes to personal relationships in the ML/WL context. I would even suggest that some of these views likely come from past negative experiences - perhaps being burned a few times himself.
Interestingly, just a couple of months ago I heard a similar perspective from a mamasan at one of the more popular North Shore massage shops. When talking about relationships with a ML, she dismissed the idea of developing any real feelings and noted that most of her girls either have boyfriends or husbands, and those who don't are actively looking. Her view was that if genuine feelings were involved, they wouldn't be charging money for the service.
I'm not suggesting these views are necessarily correct, but it is interesting how similar ideas can emerge from very different sides.
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I'd say generally true, although I've known a couple of widows (Occupational Safety departments rather small, no government support for medical issues or insurance...) and some divorcees who were currently unattached. And I can think of several who have given up looking, content with their independence. Several have told me they are actively looking for PR entry.



Independence.
Once you have a high body count things never look the same. There is no attachment as the sex act, the part that binds a couple is just that, an act. You perform, hopefully she performs and that’s it.
I doubt any SW could actually love a partner.




In reality if you werent paying, all these girls will be acting like this to you uncs. I wouldnt be surprised if they are crying after they get home feeling dirty and filthy.
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Anyone who uses the word "simp" in daily conversation usually is one.


The fact is any man who pays for sex is a loser.
Why would we pay if we didn't have to?
Now comes the pathetic 'who is the biggest loser' on the paying for sex totem pool.
At they end of the day it doesn't matter.
We are all brothers that have learned the cheat code to accuring sex, money.
Which some would say makes us winners?















She’s a blonde cauc private. Paid cash directly into her bank account. Bank teller asked “was she my daughter”? Ha.
Not the only private I pay upfront, another golden blonde cauc private, Melbourne based who comes to Sydney monthly and stays at Circular Quay.
I get them through insta. Once I friended one, I then friended all her (hot looking only)prostitute contacts. It’s more of a prostitutes and associated industry/follower network. Once you’re in with the group it becomes easy. They trust and you trust. No one is going to do anything that upsets the applecart.
You follow, you chat, you hookup. Once you get a rep (as they talk) you’re in.
These women are well known and you’ll find them attending the Adult Industry Awards so they’re not going to tarnish their business name by “shafting” a punter unless he requests it.