

I知 currently away for work, decided to check this out to line up some birds for when I知 back home. Seems pretty good so far, have too many girls lined up already for this trip. I知 basically just getting their number then sending them a few pics and just replying to the ones that seem most keen
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Interesting conversations. I'm not a fan of the dick pic. They look like fun girls.
My personal MO is one of differentiation. Rarely mentioning sex (but of course everyone knows how it works).
My target range on seeking are not desperate for money and usually in some kind of life transition stage. The last girl I was seeing from seeking was a 37 year old manager. The man's suit hanging in the cupboard I naively accepted as being "her brother's". Later found out it was her "ex". A year later I see she is now married. No money changed hands, she just needed a safe option for a while. She vetted me thoroughly prior to meeting and was confidant I wouldn't be hanging around in her life.
There are many girls that really are in need of money. The more they 'need' it due to lifestyle choices the more I personally avoid them. I steer clear of duck lips, fillers, "luxury lifestyle"
You have a lot of unanswered messages in those screenshots


I only send it if there’s been good convo and ask them beforehand if they want to see, I’m pretty sure most girls don’t want to just see random dicks with no introduction
I know the type of girl you’re talking about and I steer well clear of the bimbos, I like the girl next door type.
It’s funny 2 of them i had actually matched with on tinder first, I don’t have time for the messing around with the tinder games so this turned out to be way easier


Hey Cumshot,
Are you on Seeking or SecretBenefits or both?
Which one is better?





I have had more success on secret benefits than seeking the key to both sites is avoiding the bots and the pros that operate on both sites
I have had a few really great girls from secret benefits that have been weekly meetings for me over several months and in a couple of cases over a year
I avoid the ones that are eye candy and look for the girl next type
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This was my weekly for almost a year at only 350 per week sometimes we would meet 2-3 times per week dinner and awesome sex sometimes we would only meet once a week the added bonus was she loved being photographed
Currently I am seeing an Aussie girl from secret benefits who is 350 ppm and a lot of fun for a couple hours each week


The girl in the picture you shared looks great, do you could share her details with her permission?



The thing about the SB world is it is personal choices both way. What one guy finds attractive in a girl the next guy might find her different. The same for the girl. She will also have her particular tastes and she may meet two guys and be an absolute wet fish to one guy and the perfect goddess for the next.
I just encourage people to get a subscription. Have a few conversations and meet a few girls. I believe there is someone for everyone. Just be open and honest about what you are seeking and what you can offer. You will be surprised what girls will accept. Don't look to all the girls you miss out, enjoy the ones you click with.


Just found this thread.
Is there anyone else currently subscribing to seeking.com.


Thought I would report back on the types of adventures I had on Seeking during March.
Sydney Business Trip.
Wrote to quite a few Sydney babes asking if they would meet up with a visitor. Quickly had a list of girls that would meet each night. Price requests ranged from $500-$1,200. And the higher prices were be asked by 35-50 year olds. Settled on a sweet 50kg 25yo malaysian foreign student. She would meet me after work each day, one bag before dinner, dinner together then more after dinner. She was at the lower price range. She was bareback from the start so I would cum on her stomach. Hard to resist that.
Brisbane MILF
Did a meet and greet with an Aust born 38yo Korean MILF. After the coffee meet she must have judged that I had financial potential so she was asking $500 for more coffee dates, $2K for intimacy. I laughed and she hasn't messaged since. I see she has actually deleted her Whatsapp entirely so maybe she gave up or found someone more gullible that me. She was very personable though.
Unemployed Chinese Australian born 35yo
Met this one for a meet and greet also. Coffee meet went to a lunch meet. After the meal she suggested we get a hotel, certainly a nice greeting. She asked $900 for overnight. I said no, so she suggested $400. She undressed to reveal she was pre-loaded wearing lingerie. CIP and CIM with spit. Will definitely see her again.
By now in the Brisbane contacts I was noticing anyone over 30 was asking >$800 but the younger ones with more cost of living pressures and maybe still living at home with less rent were offering far better value.
Brisbane born Malaysian 22yo
This girl was a natural introvert but also willing to do things. As always I did a meet and greet to see if she is sane. From there we decided to go ahead but first she requested STI screening, she had that also. So a few days lapsed while I arranged the free GP visit, the free STI tests and the results came through. Met her at a dayuse hotel where I learned she was a very good kisser. Her style of kissing was 'sucker fish'. She had a negative pressure in her mouth at all times which just held onto whatever was near her mouth. Sex was good but she really hasn't learned to let go yet. She offered to finished off each time with a CIM and swallow. Hard to resist that offer.
Other Brisbane prospects
I had a list of a few other 21-25 yos that are up for meets in the $500-$600 range. Just didn't have the co-ordination to get the time with them.
The SBs are great value for the hours spent, I'm getting 3-5 hours for $500-$600 for her plus hotel but it does take some arranging to get that much time into her and my schedules. It really works best for me while travelling interstate.
For April I will probably move back to shop visits. I can just turn up at a shop, choose a girl and enjoy my time for $75 + $250
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Seeking has gotten too hard now with the new rules it’s easy to get banned. After probably 10 years of sugaring, I think I’ll holster my gun and stick to a massage and a FS. Sugar Babes do provide good value on an hourly basis, but I’m starting to notice the disapproving looks from people who dont think she’s my daughter. It’s too easy spot an older dude and a honey and know whats what. My top 10 experiences are all SBs and some of them reconnect when they need a buck and a f*ck. i always paid around 500 and the price has been very stable for that time. Pity one of them wasn’t smart enough to lock in for more than a couple of years they would have been way richer with half of everything lol

Hey, lads do you pay for the subscription to this, or do the ladies just message? Thanks all new to this
Hang on. new rules. Getting banned? What kind of things get you banned? I have not been banned and I am pretty open/upfront about what I am looking for an offering


You pay a monthly subscription but I only needed one month, I think it was about USD120. But had and have some great girls!
There is new facial registration maybe to weed out fakes for starters. Mentioning words like Allowance, PPM or Sex gets a popup when sending messages to change the words. I guess if you do enough your email address gets banned. I always make my monetary offers on Telegram or WA


If you mention money in your profile or messages it’s a breach of the rules. They are trying to avoid prosecution under new people trafficking laws in the USA.
Make offers off the site or in person.
Last edited by Puntersclub; 03-04-2026 at 08:23 PM. Reason: Clarity
OK. "Generous" "Mutually beneficial" and "_NOT_ platonic" must not be in their list of keywords.


meanwhile there are lots of 21-28 yo hotties n Brisbane willing to spend a few hours this weekend for $500-$600.
one 23yo has huge EE type titties. paid for one session with her just to get my hands on them. pretty amazing. last night she was in the valley and called to get a place to stay overnight for free. I guess she didn't get lucky on the dancefloor.