Yes, that is true and I tend to just ask what is on the cards so that both parties set our expectations and boundaries so that you know how things will transpire and avoid missed expectations.

It’s a transaction, you say what you want, she the gets the right to set her boundaries and prices and you then get to decide if you agree.

Most venues quote ladies that do FS as ‘open minded’ so if that is what you’re after choose an open minded ML