In punting terms:

Privileged is inversely proportional to the amount of money you had to put on the table. So if you're paying you're just buying a service. If you've never opened your wallet or paid a cent then yeah, you're either privileged or look like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth.

Getting extras and freebies is directly proportional to how you look, smell, dress, speak, and treat her. If you show up in brown sandals speaking with a thick Indian accent.....the odds of freebies and extras aren't in your favour. Turn up well put together, polite, clean, and easy to deal with, and you might find a few bonus features thrown in.

Anything outside that is just fucken punter's FOAM