Can I ask from what shop? Some places actively discourage this, probably for the bs drama you just encountered.
Ok, I am new to this game, and would ask f some more experience punters opinons, I now have two personal numbers from two ML's in the same shop (they both asked me for my number). So today i booked ML one the official way (via shop we chat), only to almost immedatly get a personal text message from ML number 2, to ask why i am not seeing her.
It resulted in a long series of back and forth messages between us.
Is the outcome of this ever going to be good for anyone?

Can I ask from what shop? Some places actively discourage this, probably for the bs drama you just encountered.

Indeed, I usually ask these girls if they like their job, as a means of making conversation with them, and mostly they say they do not.
I just wish the wechat bookings were kept secret between shop manager and requested ML, - I had no idea it was circulated throught every girl at the shop.


Most girls have access to the shop mobile phone.


Why would you give a girl your number ?
I have a bunch from payid.
One who became a regular outside of the shop.
These girls work for money.
So some are happy to oblige. $90 shop fee and they charge $250 FS. Offer them $300 to meet outside.
More money for them, less for you.
It can be a win win.
Most shops the ML share the phone to help as the owner isn't always there. Some will never re ply to a txt.
YMMV.
Being polite goes a long way.
You got a phone number? Wow. Did you touch her boobs too?
Hey - its the local comedian, keep up the good work mate.
I highly doubt you will ever be in a position where you get a direct text message from and ML telling you she is to quote "Heartbroken" - within about 30 seconds of making a conscious consumer decision to book with someone else.
Well at least there is someone here who actually tries to give some good advice - without totally been a toxic idiot.
That makes sense as mentioned i am new to all this this, and gaining this kind of knowledge is why i am asking in the question in the first place. - you have nothing to be sorry about at all, its exactly the sort of thing i wanted to know.
It was actually very annoying what happend yesterday - its why i put up the question - so time to block the number and spend my money elsewhere.

Itn Reality, it's Good you see others in the Shop. And not Stuck on one
And it's Good that she Knows, because if she wants you as a Regular, she has to Work Harder to keep you.
It's simply the Competitive nature of the Business.

Confirming @Macsnuggets take on this. Same lady I'm sure.
I'm sure I and plenty of others have "broken" this lady's heart too. Ignore her guilt trip.
She'll probably message you asking when you're coming to see her too.
Nice girl, but she seems to think you should only see her.
Thanks again.
Some days I look at the roster and realise I have already had a F/S massage with everyone on the roster (across both shops)- so why would you not choose the person you think is best?
I will certianly say she is good at her job once you get in there with her, i would not even bother if she was not, the guilt thing is something i prefer did not happen, but will assume it won't be the last time it happens either.



Well, for what it's worth, my strategy has always been to not have more than one regular per shop/chain and see other girls at a particular shop/chain only on days my regular is not rostered.



My approached as well but can be frustrating if you want to see a girl and your regular is working
Thanks for making me laugh. I needed that.
They don’t care about you. Get over yourself.
They care about whats in your wallet and will say and do anything to get it.
I’m trying to be cruel to be kind. If they see you as a soft touch, you are dead.
It’s a transaction. If she gets upset you see someone else, imagine her fucking 5 other guys that day and use her jealousy against her. Her problem is the other bitch stole “her” guy. Let them fight it out. And then see neither again.
It’s a business transaction. Here’s some cash to fuck me.
Done.
If you are going to leave your brain in the car and let your heart and dick take over, just stop doing this.