Reply With QuoteSo you have gone elsewhere or are just thinking about it?
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Married and wife is young, 34 and im 43.
Shes just not into it these days and its frustrating but we got a little guy so i find ways to get by. Previously my punts like pokie wins, poker wins etc id just give her the money as its free money sort of. Nowadays as shes not putting out ive stopped winning ahahahaha and just keep those funds to get myself sorted.
I mean, its bloody frustrating. They don't want to put out but than expect you to not look elsewhere.
Anyone else in the same boat and wanna share their dilemmas 😉
So you have gone elsewhere or are just thinking about it?
Half this forum are in the same boat.
You have to think of days when you are dating and scoring... and repeat it to today... make her feel super special and not tired because of the kids for the whole week (or 4 days) and then make your move...
Please make sure you count the date of her monthly visitor... dont aim during wrong week.
Follow up
How many of you get sex on the regular and still punt?
Committed relationship is a pretty loose term to be throwing around in a sex forum. That’s like saying ‘happily married’ or ‘happy wife, happy life’......and who the fuck came up with that shit anyways? Just slogans people repeat until they start believing their own bullshit.
How about ‘happy punter, happy man’... At least that one’s honest.
Relax with a massage, remember u only live once
Sounds like you aint the only one getting sex from elsewhere.
34 and not putting out?
You giving her money when you win pokies?
Is this marriage for love or a sugar daddy relationship?
Fuck 34 and not putting out, give her another 20 years post and menopause and report back how that's going
Is she getting it elsewhere too?Originally Posted by dudelove
Not the same boat but my situation with my partner is similar to yours. Our age gap is a bit larger (13 years) and we have a little one keeping us busy. Where it differs between you and I is my partner and I get it on as often as we can get away with it, what with the little one around.
All I can say is you've got to know which buttons to press, but it's different for every woman. Think back to the time when you were courting her and try to remember what turned her on and what didn't, etc.
Another factor is the kid. It's a known thing that women can switch into "mother mode" as soon as they have a kid and it can cause them to almost completely be disinterested in any further sex. Some women experience this and I have no idea how to get over this problem. Hopefully for you this is not it.
And one last thing that might help you. You gotta make sure that you're giving her good sex so she comes back for more. Don't be lazy or complacent about it. Think of it as "show time" for you to perform. Take some meds to help you if you need to. They love a good hard dick.
Many of us have gone through that in some stages of our life.
Punting is not the only solution. I find passion in a hobby most useful.
I learned how to use a camera so well that it started to make money for me.
I regret not learning to play a musical instrument.
Never too late, bro....you've come to the right place.
Love the drums? Aus99 will teach you how to bang.
Prefer the flute? Here you'll learn how to blow.
If guitar is your thing? you’ll be fingering in no time
i've been teaching myself quantum physics to pass the time.
Definitely never too late. I gave myself a challenge and 12months to know what I was doing. It also taught me to continue to start new things regardless of what they are or how much percieved effort it takes.Every effort certainly beats staring scrolling at a fucking phone.
this is great, we need to motivate ourselves to succeed in life
The little saying “happy wife, happy life” was coined by a bloody woman, I’m sure.
What it really means is that you keep her happy and she’ll consider rooting you every now and then.
Im more on the health route.
Blowjob a day keeps the prostate cancer away.
Angry wife, lots of strife !
Sorry to say, that is a myth for many of us 😎
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