Sugarbabes - Sydney, Melbourne and Gold Coast markets

[Bigbadmonkay]

Hey fellas, looking to get into SBs, any tips on where to book hotels for a same day check out?

[blitz]

Hey fellas, looking to get into SBs, any tips on where to book hotels for a same day check out?

https://au.dayuse.com/

[Bigbadmonkay]

Thanks mate, appreciate it

[jenlai29]

heya! I'm looking for SBs to spoil, I haven't been active for around 5 years and I just found out seekingarrangements isnt a thing anymore. Where does everyone meet SBs nowadays. TYIA

[linkno2]

heya! I'm looking for SBs to spoil, I haven't been active for around 5 years and I just found out seekingarrangements isnt a thing anymore. Where does everyone meet SBs nowadays. TYIA

I'm using sugardaddymeet.com right now..used to be much cheaper membership but now it like 300 / months. Lucky still have some active sb on the list.

[giobien]

What site do you guys use? seeking now asks you to selfie-verify which I am not keen

[jenlai29]

I'm using sugardaddymeet.com right now..used to be much cheaper membership but now it like 300 / months. Lucky still have some active sb on the list.

How much should i expect to pay for a PPM? It’s been quite slow since i paid for premium. i have one SB whos quoted $800 for a PPM and $600 for a weekly allowance

[asam46]

Hey fellow punters, the below is my personal experience and conclusions, not facts about the whole SB scene. I’m sure others on here have come to different conclusions.

I spent 6+ months and a large pile of cash dating and sleeping with SBs, on seeking.com and Secret Benefits. I just can’t see that this is for me at all. Some things I learned:

1. These girls often have multiple clients. Some tell you this openly, others it’s just obvious. This just makes them expensive WLs, not girlfriends. Other girls I am pretty sure only have one client at a time. It bothered me at the start and then I stopped caring because I was checking out of this whole process.

2. Girls will quote up front $800 PPP, covered, no anal. This is their opening line. This really put me off many girls because it didn’t seem like dating but, as per #1 above, many of these SBs are just WLs.

3. Almost every single girl who replied to messages wanted me as their SD. Lots of girls didn’t reply, that’s fine, but no girl said “no” after meeting me - usually I asked to meet for lunch first ($250-$300). I’m so desirable! lol. It’s just financial.

4. I have had deeper, happier and more real connections with MLs over the years than I ever felt or had with any SB I met. And those MLs cost me 1/3 to 1/4 per week.

5. Costs PPM were usually quoted as $800 to $1000. Rarely girls would knock $100-150 off the PPM rate if you paid every week. Most girls can’t host so you’re dropping $200+ on a DayUse hotel, Airbnb or whatever. Maybe she wants presents too. Maybe her mum is sick and needs cash. Etc. so be prepared for $50-70k a year if you want something long term. For $10-15k a year I can get FS from an ML every week, one difference being that an SB will spend 2-4 hours a week with you, not 1 hour.

6. Availability to meet is a key compatibility problem. It’s worth sorting that out early. Have a time you’re likely to be free every week and make sure the potential SB can fit you in. Your wife may notice if you now go out every Friday night with “your mate Kevin”, who she hasn’t met.

So I learned some stuff, including that this isn’t for me. The only thrilling part was the initial chase. When it came to fulfilling my interest in having a girlfriend that I support, maybe 300 women I messaged, 50 women I chatted to, 15 I met, 5 I slept with, there’s 0 that I wanted to keep seeing.

YMMV

Happy punting!

[GoldfishMan]

Hey fellow punters, the below is my personal experience and conclusions, not facts about the whole SB scene. I’m sure others on here have come to different conclusions.

I spent 6+ months and a large pile of cash dating and sleeping with SBs, on seeking.com and Secret Benefits. I just can’t see that this is for me at all. Some things I learned:

1. These girls often have multiple clients. Some tell you this openly, others it’s just obvious. This just makes them expensive WLs, not girlfriends. Other girls I am pretty sure only have one client at a time. It bothered me at the start and then I stopped caring because I was checking out of this whole process.

2. Girls will quote up front $800 PPP, covered, no anal. This is their opening line. This really put me off many girls because it didn’t seem like dating but, as per #1 above, many of these SBs are just WLs.

3. Almost every single girl who replied to messages wanted me as their SD. Lots of girls didn’t reply, that’s fine, but no girl said “no” after meeting me - usually I asked to meet for lunch first ($250-$300). I’m so desirable! lol. It’s just financial.

4. I have had deeper, happier and more real connections with MLs over the years than I ever felt or had with any SB I met. And those MLs cost me 1/3 to 1/4 per week.

5. Costs PPM were usually quoted as $800 to $1000. Rarely girls would knock $100-150 off the PPM rate if you paid every week. Most girls can’t host so you’re dropping $200+ on a DayUse hotel, Airbnb or whatever. Maybe she wants presents too. Maybe her mum is sick and needs cash. Etc. so be prepared for $50-70k a year if you want something long term. For $10-15k a year I can get FS from an ML every week, one difference being that an SB will spend 2-4 hours a week with you, not 1 hour.

6. Availability to meet is a key compatibility problem. It’s worth sorting that out early. Have a time you’re likely to be free every week and make sure the potential SB can fit you in. Your wife may notice if you now go out every Friday night with “your mate Kevin”, who she hasn’t met.

So I learned some stuff, including that this isn’t for me. The only thrilling part was the initial chase. When it came to fulfilling my interest in having a girlfriend that I support, maybe 300 women I messaged, 50 women I chatted to, 15 I met, 5 I slept with, there’s 0 that I wanted to keep seeing.

YMMV

Happy punting!

Thats a great write-up, bro. Kudos!

[linkno2]

How much should i expect to pay for a PPM? It’s been quite slow since i paid for premium. i have one SB whos quoted $800 for a PPM and $600 for a weekly allowance

Depend on what is your taste..rate vary from 400 upto 1300ppm from my experience
There few of them can host too. Usually 500 -700 plus hotel fee.
My most expensive one is a chinese student for 1300 pm but she worth it, i keep seeing her every now and then . The cheapest one is one young indian born chick in campsie...500 for few hours in her studio.

[phamily]

Hey fellow punters, the below is my personal experience and conclusions, not facts about the whole SB scene. I’m sure others on here have come to different conclusions.

I spent 6+ months and a large pile of cash dating and sleeping with SBs, on seeking.com and Secret Benefits. I just can’t see that this is for me at all. Some things I learned:

1. These girls often have multiple clients. Some tell you this openly, others it’s just obvious. This just makes them expensive WLs, not girlfriends. Other girls I am pretty sure only have one client at a time. It bothered me at the start and then I stopped caring because I was checking out of this whole process.

2. Girls will quote up front $800 PPP, covered, no anal. This is their opening line. This really put me off many girls because it didn’t seem like dating but, as per #1 above, many of these SBs are just WLs.

3. Almost every single girl who replied to messages wanted me as their SD. Lots of girls didn’t reply, that’s fine, but no girl said “no” after meeting me - usually I asked to meet for lunch first ($250-$300). I’m so desirable! lol. It’s just financial.

4. I have had deeper, happier and more real connections with MLs over the years than I ever felt or had with any SB I met. And those MLs cost me 1/3 to 1/4 per week.

5. Costs PPM were usually quoted as $800 to $1000. Rarely girls would knock $100-150 off the PPM rate if you paid every week. Most girls can’t host so you’re dropping $200+ on a DayUse hotel, Airbnb or whatever. Maybe she wants presents too. Maybe her mum is sick and needs cash. Etc. so be prepared for $50-70k a year if you want something long term. For $10-15k a year I can get FS from an ML every week, one difference being that an SB will spend 2-4 hours a week with you, not 1 hour.

6. Availability to meet is a key compatibility problem. It’s worth sorting that out early. Have a time you’re likely to be free every week and make sure the potential SB can fit you in. Your wife may notice if you now go out every Friday night with “your mate Kevin”, who she hasn’t met.

So I learned some stuff, including that this isn’t for me. The only thrilling part was the initial chase. When it came to fulfilling my interest in having a girlfriend that I support, maybe 300 women I messaged, 50 women I chatted to, 15 I met, 5 I slept with, there’s 0 that I wanted to keep seeing.

YMMV

Happy punting!

Brilliant write up here, kudos to you bro.

I agree with a lot of the things you’ve said here, it’s very YMMV.

I was lucky that I had some SBs locked in during Covid which helped keep me sane during that time but have lucked out since the pandemic ended.

I currently find there’s far greater value for money if you are able to find a ML that you click with and make her your regular instead

[asam46]

Brilliant write up here, kudos to you bro.

I agree with a lot of the things you’ve said here, it’s very YMMV.

I was lucky that I had some SBs locked in during Covid which helped keep me sane during that time but have lucked out since the pandemic ended.

I currently find there’s far greater value for money if you are able to find a ML that you click with and make her your regular instead

Thank you, and people have had great experiences with SBs. And regarding an ML you click with, yes, 100 %. I find a lot of satisfaction with a regular ML, looking forward to the next meet, and it keeps my spending down to once a week.

[blidbla86]

Depend on what is your taste..rate vary from 400 upto 1300ppm from my experience
There few of them can host too. Usually 500 -700 plus hotel fee.
My most expensive one is a chinese student for 1300 pm but she worth it, i keep seeing her every now and then . The cheapest one is one young indian born chick in campsie...500 for few hours in her studio.

i'm not sure what the difference is between this and an escort? or SB in general vs escort?

[jenlai29]

i'm not sure what the difference is between this and an escort? or SB in general vs escort?

I suppose an escort like the ones on Scarlet Blue actually has a clientele base. Depending on the SB , some SBs might stay exclusive for their SDs or have a small group of SDs. BB is also an option for some SBs. It’s more closer to an actual GF no strings attached experience.

[Aussieguyinsf]

Big fan of seeking.com and I have a vastly different experience from the posters above. I've had some long term ones. Longest was 18 months - 22 year old bi-girl who loved pole and indie music. So much fun. Absolutely gorgeous. Left me when she found a gf and got serious. I've also had many one offs over the years. I pay anything from $400 to $600. I am seeing one in Sydney who I do raw for $600 and she stays overnight. I just came back from Melbourne and saw two SBs. One was 350 and the other 600 - Japanese single mum with a regular job who just does it on the side. You can pick the WLs on the site and I don't go near them. I like girl next door Asians and blacks. Forget the other platforms, seeking.com is the way to go. I have a telegram group for guys who have paid up seeking.com accounts to trade info but am pretty selective about who we let in from past timewasters.

[jenlai29]

Big fan of seeking.com and I have a vastly different experience from the posters above. I've had some long term ones. Longest was 18 months - 22 year old bi-girl who loved pole and indie music. So much fun. Absolutely gorgeous. Left me when she found a gf and got serious. I've also had many one offs over the years. I pay anything from $400 to $600. I am seeing one in Sydney who I do raw for $600 and she stays overnight. I just came back from Melbourne and saw two SBs. One was 350 and the other 600 - Japanese single mum with a regular job who just does it on the side. You can pick the WLs on the site and I don't go near them. I like girl next door Asians and blacks. Forget the other platforms, seeking.com is the way to go. I have a telegram group for guys who have paid up seeking.com accounts to trade info but am pretty selective about who we let in from past timewasters.

Hi! I’ve sent a message for you regarding telegram. Thanks!

[Propro]

Big fan of seeking.com and I have a vastly different experience from the posters above. I've had some long term ones. Longest was 18 months - 22 year old bi-girl who loved pole and indie music. So much fun. Absolutely gorgeous. Left me when she found a gf and got serious. I've also had many one offs over the years. I pay anything from $400 to $600. I am seeing one in Sydney who I do raw for $600 and she stays overnight. I just came back from Melbourne and saw two SBs. One was 350 and the other 600 - Japanese single mum with a regular job who just does it on the side. You can pick the WLs on the site and I don't go near them. I like girl next door Asians and blacks. Forget the other platforms, seeking.com is the way to go. I have a telegram group for guys who have paid up seeking.com accounts to trade info but am pretty selective about who we let in from past timewasters.

What's your telegram? I can't seem to access messages here.

[Aussieguyinsf]

What's your telegram? I can't seem to access messages here.

same as my name here

[FunTimes105]

New here so not sure I'm posting this correctly but I have had plenty of success on SA in Sydney over the years. I normally sign up for a month then work the contacts I get over the month.

I don't have a picture on my profile.

I currently have 4 on the go and trying to reduce it to 2 without hurting any feelings. I don’t have lots of time to dedicate to this with a busy work schedule.

If I have to get a hotel, I never pay more than $300 (that’s a deal breaker for many but so be it), if they can host, I make it $400-$500

Girl 1 – an attractive South American girl, early 30’s. She can host and is happy with the $300. We meet weekly and get on really well. Round 1 is usually followed by dinner then we return to hers for dessert. This girl is a true 3 holer. I can spend as much time in whatever hole I like all bare.

Girl 2 – an attractive blonde, mid-late 20’s. She can host so I give her $500. We get along very well and she is always happy with two shots all bare.

Girl 3 – probably the most average looker of the 4 but ok and mid 20’s. This one is $300 as can’t host and again she is always happy with two shots all bare. This one is very reliable, once she commits, she commits.

Girl 4 – this one can host so $400. Mid 30’s. Also a blonde. And again she is always happy with two shots all bare.

Having said the above, there is/was lots of messaging on SA where I got no replies or a “no thanks” or lots of chat backwards and forwards then they'd either get cold feet or disappear or something less polite. You have to be patient and not thin skinned. Some say no first time round but then open up communication wise when you have a second go. I guess it depends on their experiences and I have heard plenty of horror stories…..

I have also made the mistake a couple of times meeting up without having first met for a coffee/drink and paid the price in that they are just not my type, butt ugly and look nothing like their profile photo etc so there has been a couple of occasions where I just couldn't go through with it but that was my fault and lesson learned.

I also have a couple on the go in Melbourne. They are both $300 as I always have a hotel when in Melbourne.

[andrewv]

That is very reassuring to know some girls are happy with $300 to $500, @FunTimes105.
As you know, many girls on SA are asking for $700 to $1,200 per meeting which is not economical when you also have to add another $200 for a hotel room.

Do you discuss the amount before you first meet for coffee/drink to save time, or do you wait till after you've had the MAG (Meet And Greet) first.

New here so not sure I'm posting this correctly but I have had plenty of success on SA in Sydney over the years. I normally sign up for a month then work the contacts I get over the month.

I don't have a picture on my profile.

I currently have 4 on the go and trying to reduce it to 2 without hurting any feelings. I don’t have lots of time to dedicate to this with a busy work schedule.

If I have to get a hotel, I never pay more than $300 (that’s a deal breaker for many but so be it), if they can host, I make it $400-$500

Girl 1 – an attractive South American girl, early 30’s. She can host and is happy with the $300. We meet weekly and get on really well. Round 1 is usually followed by dinner then we return to hers for dessert. This girl is a true 3 holer. I can spend as much time in whatever hole I like all bare.

Girl 2 – an attractive blonde, mid-late 20’s. She can host so I give her $500. We get along very well and she is always happy with two shots all bare.

Girl 3 – probably the most average looker of the 4 but ok and mid 20’s. This one is $300 as can’t host and again she is always happy with two shots all bare. This one is very reliable, once she commits, she commits.

Girl 4 – this one can host so $400. Mid 30’s. Also a blonde. And again she is always happy with two shots all bare.

Having said the above, there is/was lots of messaging on SA where I got no replies or a “no thanks” or lots of chat backwards and forwards then they'd either get cold feet or disappear or something less polite. You have to be patient and not thin skinned. Some say no first time round but then open up communication wise when you have a second go. I guess it depends on their experiences and I have heard plenty of horror stories…..

I have also made the mistake a couple of times meeting up without having first met for a coffee/drink and paid the price in that they are just not my type, butt ugly and look nothing like their profile photo etc so there has been a couple of occasions where I just couldn't go through with it but that was my fault and lesson learned.

I also have a couple on the go in Melbourne. They are both $300 as I always have a hotel when in Melbourne.