Reply With QuoteI have asked and been asked for contact details from MLs, only a handful.Originally Posted by IntrepidDog
The MLs that have asked for my details, I only ever give them my burner phone / secondary WeChat. When I asked them why they want my details, the universal reply is they considered me to be a good customer and just wanted my repeat business - and it works. If I haven't been to see a regular for a while, and they messsage to say "hi", I'll probably pop in for a visit I would have otherwise initiated.
I've also had a few MLs get my details off the shop phone and contact me. Again, for repeat business.
The ones I've asked for were to arrange out of shop rendezvous. Sometimes paid, sometimes not paid. Although there was never any up-front negotiation on fees. Some meet ups are like dates with no hook up (I usually pay for food and drinks etc), others are purely hook up. One particular fond memory was a Chinese ML who lived out Ipswich way - I would see her in the shop and pay normal rates, but on her days off, she'll message me and I'll head out west for a lunch time shag and then she'd feed me homemade dumplings! Those sessions were unpaid. She said she lived with a "housemate" but then one say she let slip that she's living with her husband for PR purposes...didn't go back after that. Don't need the drama!
Fun times to be had, but for me, I keep a level head and know exactly what I am willing and not willing to give.
