I totally agree!! Exciting maybe, but not safe with a WG!!!
Do you mean to say that if I have seen the WL, say five times, it becomes safer to do it BB with her than in the first time????
If she does it after five times, I bet she does it for many others after five visits.
And for some (who ask) on the first visit if the money is right.
Firstly,
Excuse my ignorance bro, but how does daty and shower let you distinguish whether she is healthy???????
Sure, if she appears clean, your risk may be lesser than if she stinks to high heaven with all sorts of bacterial infections, but...
As far as I know, the only STD I'm really concerned about - HIV - does not really present itself so that you could detect it without a blood test.
Secondly, to quote the song from Tina Turner, when talking about WL's: "
What's love gotta do with it?"
Thirdly, IF you do BBFS, then can you explain to me (as I do not understand) what's the problem with CIP????
(Unless you are the one with the STD - which you might be if you're doing this with a lot of your loved WL's).
I would hope that any girl offering BB would be on the pill, not to get pregnant.
For you CIP is no riskier after BB, but for her it certainly is.
@All:
I'm sorry if I sound rather blunt with my comments, but sometimes I get so annoyed with these posts saying BB is okay if you love the WL.
It has nothing to do with the facts of transmitting a decease or the risks involved.